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writes:Dear cupid, I am upset all the time because me and my boyfriend live so far away. We are going to see each other easter and we was thinking about having sex for the first time. I dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, chachacha +, writes (1 March 2007):
You're only a teenager - did your boyfriend's parents move away? Or has your relationship always been long distance?
If the latter, then it sounds like the relationship is not making you happy - crying all the time at your age is not good - you should be out having fun. When things don't make you happy, you should replace them with things that do - like a boyfriend who lives nearby?
If you are totally in love with him and convinced that he is the one for you, then you'll just have to be patient until you are old enough for one or both of you to move.
I do not suggest having sex with him - it will make everything more difficult for you if you do split up.
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reader, sugabean  +, writes (1 March 2007):
that is a decision you can only make for yourself!!! my advice would be DONT plan something like that it should just happen if it feels right BUT then also i would like to add..... your still young honey. i dont know if you have already had sex, but of you havnt keep it for as long as possible. im still a virgin and im actually so proud to say i am. and keeping it till married.not in anyway speaking down to anyone that has its just something i want live by. you should try it
good luck
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