I WANT to believe that he is really making it up to me but our past is stopping me doing so.
Q. Hi, I'm not sure where to start but here goes. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, but twice during these four years that we broke up because he cheated on me and lied to me. The first time was harder because I never saw it com...
A. 29 November 2010: Oh I see..thank you for your input. It's really helpful to see others' point of view on my issue as I need an outsider's perspective. I guess you're right, I should step back and think coolly what I want. Next time if we have a disagreement, I'll ... (read in full...)
I WANT to believe that he is really making it up to me but our past is stopping me doing so.
Q. Hi, I'm not sure where to start but here goes. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, but twice during these four years that we broke up because he cheated on me and lied to me. The first time was harder because I never saw it com...
A. 28 November 2010: It was done out of rage, he smashed my laptop first so I only returned the favour. In previous fights I would never have done this but at that moment it was just too much. I see what you mean though. But what do you mean by "He will shut it up and ... (read in full...)
Psychologist trouble
Q. I am having serious depression and anxiety issues. I have started being a nag to my husband. I misinterpret everything everyone does around me and am very negative. In short I figure am losing it. I called help from the church. The psychologist ...
A. 23 June 2009: I currently have anxiety and depression problems too.. up to the point that I can't sleep properly or only sleep until I am too weak to be awake. I start hyperventilating and vomiting whenever I worry too much, and it's beginning to affect me in a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving 2 hours away, I'm clingy and needy... Help!
Q. HI! okay so my bf of a year and some days is moving away at the end of this month because he cant find a job so he's moving back home with his parents which is bout 2hours away, and idk what to do? I live with my mom still cuz i dont hava job yet ...
A. 23 June 2009: Accept that things change, things can't always be the same. Try to work things out with your boyfriend, like how much are you going to be able to see each other etc. Can you both drive? Plus, try making some friends at home..you don't wanna be too ... (read in full...)
I feel alone, my family have literally abandoned me.
Q. hey .. can u help me.? I'm getting more depressed. My sister is always out and doesnt never want to do anything with me any more. she is 18 and we have always been close. I am always home alone on my own an have nothing to do.. i have to sometime...
A. 23 June 2009: First of all, *hugs*
Second of all, try talking to your mom, ask her if you can join going out with the stepdad and his son etc. Maybe you can tell her that you want to know them. Now, in truth maybe you actually don't, but anything to persuade... (read in full...)
This can't be love, so why cant I let go?
Q. I am in a very unhealthy relationship with my boyfriend. We have currently been on and off for about 8 months. We've dated prior to this as well. We constantly break up and get back together. I make excuses for his out of control behavior and I b...
A. 23 June 2009: Abi is right, also, you can read books on relationships, maybe try Greg Behrendt's "He's Just Not That Into You"? I love that book since it has made me feel empowered..coming from a person who has been in crappy relationships..or try finding other ... (read in full...)
Did one little argument bring about the end of our relationship?
Q. dear cupid i have a problem. what does it mean when he wants to end everything because "i cant get close to anyone in a relationship because i find one little thing that drives me crazy and i completely explode i really am probably the worst ...
A. 22 June 2009: If he had the heart to tell you that this the end, then it means that (to quote Greg Behrendt) he's just not that into you anymore. He may care for you still, but for whatever reason, he doesn't want to be with you anymore. A guy who's disappeared ... (read in full...)
This can't be love, so why cant I let go?
Q. I am in a very unhealthy relationship with my boyfriend. We have currently been on and off for about 8 months. We've dated prior to this as well. We constantly break up and get back together. I make excuses for his out of control behavior and I b...
A. 22 June 2009: It really is an unhealthy relationship. He is abusive, he is dangerous, and he provides no sense of security for you both physically and emotionally. How things are like now are a hint of what the future is. Yes, people can change and I suspect this ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts?
Q. I guess my question is this: How do you know if you should stay with a relationship if you're having doubts? I'm feeling really confused. Sometimes I get this feeling that I'm just with my boyfriend because it's comfortable. Sometimes I thin...
A. 22 June 2009: Well, I've also been somewhat in your shoes. It feels like you're at a point in your relationship where it REALLY feels like a crossroads and you think you need to decide there and then whether you should go on or stop because you're confused, the ... (read in full...)
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