How do deal with my roommate's girlfriend?
Q. How do deal with my roommate's girlfriend? My roommate (male) met an ex-stripper, bipolar, young girl who spends every night at our apartment. I respect my roomamte but he has left her twice alone in my apartment. I have warn him about this ...
A. 16 August 2007: This problem could be a bit tricky, mostly because of him being your best friend and you understandably not wanting to upset him unduly. Perhaps sitting down over a coffee and discussing it in an open manner, no accusations etc. Perhaps a good w... (read in full...)
How much should I shave?
Q. Okay, this question is much more lighthearted than what you normally see on here, and maybe we all need that considering how heavy some of the topics are, but I am serious none the less. My physical therapist wants to tape my knees because th...
A. 16 August 2007: Shave both your whole legs. If anyone looks and asks, tell them you're a competition level track cyclist! Women loved my shaved legs when I was racing cometitively back in those days. ;-)... (read in full...)
He doesn't listen when I speak, he interrupts, he says hurtful things and he says he doesn't need me or care if it ends... !
Q. I've been with this guy three years next month, but he still does the same things he does now, not listening to me when I speak, interrupting when I speak, saying hurtful things and then apologizing for it, telling me he doesn't need me or care if ...
A. 14 August 2007: scorpionn, The penny drops! If only you'd said in your original post that the issues were occuring during arguements, disagreements. Lots of males act like your boyfriend does when in an arguement. Plenty of women do the same thing too. It... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant even when using a condom?
Q. Can you get pregnant even if you always use a condom? What are the chances of becoming pregnant if the condom is used properly and doesn't split? I'm 3 weeks late and really need some advice. Thanks...
A. 13 August 2007: Yes you can fall pregnant if using a condom. Current statistics from the World Health Organisation are quoted below: "Estimated pregnancy rates during perfect use of condoms, that is for those who report using the method exactly as it should be ... (read in full...)
When my son tells his girlfriend that she can't have her way, she threatens to harm herself.
Q. Hello, my nineteen year old son has a girlfriend. They have been dating for about 8 months, he away at University. Last term as he was preparing to go back she asked how 'can you choose university over me if you loved me you would stay'. Now she is ...
A. 13 August 2007: In all honesty she sounds very much like an ex girlfriend of mine from 25+ years ago. She used to try pulling the I'll kill myself routine constantly, everytime I wanted to go anywhere, or do anything that didn't include her.
In the end I had to... (read in full...)
I would be interested in hearing peoples views on the inconsistancy that seems to be EVERYWHERE through the bible!
Q. This question is not so much about relationships but I am studying religious studies in college and I'm finding it fascinating! My friend is part of a pentacostal church and it's ridiculous. If anyone has seen that church scene in Borat it is just ...
A. 13 August 2007: Choconut,
The Bible is indeed extremely inconsistant in it's writings. The Old Testament is essentially a vague history of the Jews along with what is in essence a bronze age rationalisation of how the universe and world was created. Add to this ... (read in full...)
He doesn't listen when I speak, he interrupts, he says hurtful things and he says he doesn't need me or care if it ends... !
Q. I've been with this guy three years next month, but he still does the same things he does now, not listening to me when I speak, interrupting when I speak, saying hurtful things and then apologizing for it, telling me he doesn't need me or care if ...
A. 13 August 2007: He's using a well known method of mental abuse to keep you off balance and under control as it were. There's a very high chance that without professional help things will never improve and even with such help he may never stop his abusive ways. No ... (read in full...)
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