Any advice on how I can deal with this crisis of self-confidence?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend which hurt me a lot but I was very lucky to find a really nice guy right afterwards. I like him a lot, but he just makes me feel so insecure that I'm having a really hard time being with him. I'm really sma...
A. 15 July 2008: Dude---CHILL. You met a nice guy, you are smart, successful, attractive. Enjoy what you've got, don't put out right away (if you haven't already) to make sure he's not a user. Build a friendship and give it time to make sure feelings are there ... (read in full...)
Why can't I meet a guy who is not a liar, not into porn, not an addict or not into the bleached blonde, blow-up doll type, which I am not, am I just unlucky in love, or do I need a change of venue from southern California?
Q. Hi there. I am a 27 year old healthy, fun, athletic, sincere, hard working, (like to think of myself as) pretty attractive female. I live in Southern California and it seems like every man I meet is a liar, is an addict, is into porn (which I ...
A. 15 July 2008: Thanks for all of your feedback. I've been questioning myself if I've set impossible standards, and it's nice to hear other people say you think I can find what I'm looking for eventually. I will continue with patience focusing on what is ... (read in full...)
Why is he being so mean? And how can I move on?
Q. Oh Please Help Me! How do you get over a bf of three years? You all told me before to get rid of him - I did then went back and now we are not talking - I found out he was on those sex sites telling women where to meet him when he is out of town - ...
A. 15 July 2008: You asked him if he'd met or intended to meet any of those girls, and he kicked you out of his house? Well, I'd say he absolutely feels guilty... nobody should be talking to anyone behind their significant other's back! Uggh, people make me sick. ... (read in full...)
I hurt her, and she won't have anything to do with me - will she ever give me another go?
Q. Hi, i put a question up the other day about how to win my ex back back after hurting her. I never cheated or anything, i just emotionally tore her apart to the point she felt ill with worry. never intentional, i just always knew she would come ...
A. 15 July 2008: Damn... that was really hard for me to read. My ex of two years and I just broke up. When we started out, he began lying to me-- made up fictitious stories about his past, texting/calling ex girlfriends and other girls behind my back (even though ... (read in full...)
I want my ex in my life, because I could see myself marrying him, but I met this new guy who I feel extremely comfortable with, don't know if I love him him or am infatuated, torn between the two, what shoul I do?
Q. I'm torn between two guys. One is my ex who I met 3 years ago, we dated for over a year, and have broken up and gotten back together 4 times. The other is this guy I met at a club. I met him about 8 months ago and instantly was attracted to him ...
A. 15 July 2008: New guy! Most likely you & your ex broke up 4 times in one year for reasons. You don't want to settle to marry someone when there are factors like those reasons present.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was very loving, we had sex, he invited me to dinner with his family, all in the last week we were together, then bam, he said he didn't want a relationship, don't want him back, want to try to understand what happened, can anyone shed s
Q. I'm 19 years old. My bf recently broke up with me but I didn't see it coming because right up until the very last night we spent together he was totaly leading me on. He lead me on by talking about our future, making more plans, sleeping with me, ...
A. 15 July 2008: I'm sorry. What an ass! It sounds like he either met or got together with someone else at the party, but the fact that he didn't invite you or tell you about the party before hand hints to me that he was lying about or exaggerating his interest in ... (read in full...)
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