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Husband cheated and got girl pregnant!

Q.   what to do? i'm a christian, but am so confused. married 12 years and he cheated on me and got this young girl pregnant. he wants to stay with me, but how am i supposed to deal with him being involved in another child's life that isn't mine!!? we ...

A.   24 March 2010: btw.. Christianity isn't a rule governed thing. God is extremely reasonable. If He wants her to forgive him, He'll give her the strength to. I am not saying this to defend anything or anyone. I'm just explaining a lil bit. Not preaching or ... (read in full...)

Husband cheated and got girl pregnant!

Q.   what to do? i'm a christian, but am so confused. married 12 years and he cheated on me and got this young girl pregnant. he wants to stay with me, but how am i supposed to deal with him being involved in another child's life that isn't mine!!? we ...

A.   24 March 2010: here's the thing. I'm a Christian too (please don't hurt me.. HAHA!! Kidding) God knows your pain. trust in Him and you will pull through. Although God isn't exactly the biggest fan of divorce.. He doesn't condone cheating either. I've heard my ... (read in full...)

I get jealous everytime my ex has another girl around.

Q.   Lately i been really jealous when my ex is aroung pretty girls we are best friends but its so tough when i finally over come it, get used to him talkin to one another one comes. Its making my life hell, i dont expect him not to talking to any of ...

A.   19 February 2010: Try looking from a different perspective. Maybe you're just jealous because you still have feelings for him. Stop making him your sole purpose for going to those outings and maybe you'll overcome it when you find someone else or through time. :)... (read in full...)

A man is obsessed with me, please help.

Q.   Hi, I am trying to end a relationship with a man who is obsessed with me and intent on marrying me. He is a good man and he truly loves me and wants to protect me. But he is controlling, and even though I love him, I can't take the control. I k...

A.   14 February 2010: I understand. There have been many friends of mine who have gone through this. Although it might be hard for him, he needs to be able to let you go. What love does he show you if he doesn't care about what you want- or need? One alternative is to ... (read in full...)

I am really bugged by the fact that she's been with 3 other guys

Q.   I have been in a relationship with A for 3 months as a couple - 8 as a sort-of - and i've had troubling thoughts. She's has been with 3 guys before, sexually. I'm a wholesome guy, but I lost my virginity to her. Her last relationship lasted for 2 ...

A.   14 February 2010: Thanks everyone for your replies. I understand the world we live in today. However it isn't in the culture of where we live in to have sex. I'll take all your advice and try to get over it. She is very loving and sweet. And yeah.. I think she is the ... (read in full...)

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