Why was my partner checking the text messages on my mobile phone? She has no reason to doubt me!
Q. Well I guess this is a common issue and has been answered many times before but here it goes.. Last night I found my partner going through my mobile phone text messages. Well I found that my phone light was on and it was clear she had just put it ...
A. 12 February 2012: I want to thank you for your replies and return an update. Yesterday I discovered my partner was looking at my laptop but there were no windows open. I just saw a window closing as I walked in and she mus have closed it in a hurry. I made light ... (read in full...)
I lied to my boyfriend but now that I have come clean and am telling the truth he doesn't trust me
Q. I lied to my boyfriend about my online- activities prior to us moving in together. When he found out, I denied it, then I changed my story and told him what I was doing (emblishing the facts as I thought it was what he wanted to hear), I then took ...
A. 6 February 2012: There is always a chance to build a trusting relationship although lies have a terrible way of destoying love and respect. Tell the truth to him from now on. Don't leave parts of the truth out or change things slightly. Be straighforward a... (read in full...)
Has my girlfriend deceived me or does the sex with her ex-boyfriend not count?
Q. I am not sure where to start but I do want to document how I feel and explain what has been happening in my relationship. Without going in to too much background detail I want to start with the facts. At the end of March this year my partner walked ...
A. 2 January 2012: Thank you for the responses. It is very helpful to be able to read independent views. I wanted to update with my thoughts. I think I'm getting hung up on the fact that my partner walked out without saying a word and, crucially, wihout saying that ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 30 October 2010: Your feedback is the only response you have made which alludes to the real issue (that of the threat to your family unit which could occur)
It sounds as though you are more interested in keeping the secret fantasy going. It is interesting that you ... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: I thank you for your feedback as it is the only response you have made which alludes to the real issue (that of the threat to your family unit which could occur)
It sounds as though you are more interested in keeping the secret fantasy going. It i... (read in full...)
We are both married - do his 'friendly' kisses mean anything?
Q. I am a married 40 year old woman. I am attracted to a male married friend whose wife is also my friend. Our famlies are very close and we all meet up regularly. I have never let this man know about my feelings and have never acted on them. We have ...
A. 29 October 2010: Apologies for how this may sound but I think you are deluding yourself greatly. Why? Because you pretend that your relationship with this guy is one of friendship. Friends do not lust after each other or adore. And please stop deluding yourself ... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonble feeling bad that she sees her ex's without letting me know?
Q. Hi, I would be grateful of objective view of my situation. I have been with my partner for 4 years. We are in our early 40s. My partner sees ex's of hers on a fairly regular basis. There are 5 that I know about. She has mostly male friends. I don't...
A. 1 July 2010: Just a quick update.
My partner didn't return home until 1.30am as she called in at another bar to see a couple more friends on the way home. She woke me asking if I wanted something to eat. She was hungry as she had been drinking since the late... (read in full...)
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