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I don't feel anything during sex!

Q.   I have had sex with 5 men and it's always the same. I can feel the penis inside of me but, it doesn't really feel like anything. I doesn't feel good or bad. It's like if someone puts their hand on yours, nothing but touch. I'm married and I have one ...

A.   22 January 2009: Try lots of hugs and chats sexually throughout the day, turn each other on with words, massages and gearing up to sex itself. Find out what you like in sex, which way appeals to you, there are plenty of ways to do this and enough books for you to ... (read in full...)

I feel alone and abandoned and we play mindgames on the phone

Q.   hi ,im divorced and met a man 16mths ago,he is the same divorced also .at the start he wined and dined me,but after all the breakups we have he is not the same,he lives away a few miles from me and as im the one with car he wants me to go to him.he ...

A.   22 January 2009: Hi Cherrychopsticks lonliness is a difficult thing to cope with, l believe this man is using you, he sounds so selfish and certainly not worth your attention. Are you easing your own lonliness by keeping in touch with him and perhaps he knows this ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's new friend is getting too close for my liking!

Q.   I have been dating a guy for 4 years and he cheated on me once. I forgave him and tried to move past it because he said that it would never happen again and it hasn't in two years. But all of a sudden there is a new girl that expressed an interest...

A.   18 January 2009: Hi.. How would your boyfriend feel if it was you in his situation instead? From your letter it seems he's enjoying the flattery of two women and not too willing to give it up either. He's cheated already on you and you are fine to trust your own ... (read in full...)

Every time I open my mouth I say the wrong thing

Q.   hello. i need help and advice. i am so sorry this is so long but i have recently split up from my boyfriend of 4.5 years on monday. he is my first love. it was a very very confusing and upsetting situation as to my knowledge everything was going ...

A.   11 January 2009: Hi.. It sounds like you both need to readjust how you feel about each other. No guy likes being pushed for an answer especially if they are trying to sort out any major stuff like job hunting. I would give him the space he asked for and in the ... (read in full...)

I've lost respect for my wife

Q.   I have been married for 5 years now and i feel im losing respect for my wife and i don't know how i feel towards her. I feel like im flirting with other women, My wife is a really good woman but i don't feel like i am a good husband, we have...

A.   11 January 2009: Hi.. It sounds like your in a great deal of emotional pain. I think too that you have put your first love on a pedestal and it would be difficult for your wife to compete with this. I think that if you two could take a step back from trying too hard ... (read in full...)

Can't get pregnant but they have been trying....

Q.   Hello everyone. I need some advice. My friend has been trying to get pregnant since August. she's 22 in a stable relationship (engaged) and is financially stable. Both she and her boyfriend even purchased a house instead of planning a large fancy ...

A.   3 December 2008: Hi... Having had this problem i can understand how your friend feels. Relaxing is the most important thing they can do for themselves since the guy worries about his girl this puts pressure on the relationship. Relaxing is also difficult when all ... (read in full...)

He doesn't pursue me in a eager way! Is he just nervous or dates me out of boredom?

Q.   I met a guy online and now have been out with him twice. He has my phone number. We have briefly talked on the phone but mostly played phone tag on each others voicemails. He keeps emailing me to ask me out not only that but each time he takes a few ...

A.   3 December 2008: please please don't sell yourself short. If he's interested he would pick up the phone and call you. Trust your own instincts, they will guide you right. He sounds like my ex as i used to initiate hugs and any kind of affection from him and it ... (read in full...)

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