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*aydenlh
writes:I have had sex with 5 men and it's always the same. I can feel the penis inside of me but, it doesn't really feel like anything. I doesn't feel good or bad. It's like if someone puts their hand on yours, nothing but touch. I'm married and I have one child and one on the way. I enjoy the closness of sex but, that's it. I get horny like everyone else and want sex but, he gets off and I'm left still horny. The only thing that feels kind of good is my clit but, I can't get off by it. Also, my clit will start hurting after awhile if it is messed with to much. My husband has no idea because I didn't want him to feel like it was his fault. I'm really starting to think there is something wrong with me. I just don't understand. I'm so tired of faking it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): Hey I actually stumbled upon your question here because I am in the same situation, but I don't even get anything from clit. So don't feel alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): 10% of all women can't have an orgasm - look it up.
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reader, haydenlh +, writes (22 January 2009):
haydenlh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah, I know. :(
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reader, haydenlh +, writes (22 January 2009):
haydenlh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsnowbear
I have tried all of that. I can get super horny but, it don't matter. We have tried it every way in the book. Nothing works. :(
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reader, haydenlh +, writes (22 January 2009):
haydenlh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionReally, so this isn't something that other women have problems with.
I kind of don't want to talk to my doctor about it. He is a little mean and will probably be like "how do you keep popping out kids if you don't feel anything". Plus, I really don't like talking about it.
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reader, snowbear  +, writes (22 January 2009):
Try lots of hugs and chats sexually throughout the day, turn each other on with words, massages and gearing up to sex itself. Find out what you like in sex, which way appeals to you, there are plenty of ways to do this and enough books for you to check out. It may just be you need to discover what you like then you can let him know and experiment together. If you don't know what you like then he won't know either and will be constantly guessing. Sex is not just physical it's also emotional and mental. hope this helps you good luck. x
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reader, haydenlh +, writes (22 January 2009):
haydenlh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I have tried toys and my fingers nothing works. Nope, not even close.
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