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My BF still talks with the ex that broke him up with his previous girlfriend! Now it's affecting our relationship too!

Q.   Hi, I hope someone can help me figure this out. My bf's ex-ex was the reason my bf broke up with his last gf. Now with me I think it's leading the same way. Basically his ex-ex and him are still in contact and even though I told him I don't fe...

A.   2 July 2006: He should've realized that if his ex-ex caused his breakup with his last girlfriend, it's a bad idea to keep speaking to her. My ex-boyfriend was still in contact with his ex when we were together, and it bothered me constantly because I knew the... (read in full...)

How do I reassure my friend his od wast her fault??

Q.   One of my best friends is blaming herself for our guy friend's drug overdose. He asked her out not long before he o/d'd, and she turned him down. I've tried to assure her that it wasn't her fault, but she insists that she "pushed him over the edge". ...

A.   2 July 2006: When someone close dies, there's often a period when we blame ourselves for what happened, or for not doing more to stop it. I remember when my grandfather died my nanna felt it was her fault because she felt she didn't do enough to help him. Of ... (read in full...)

I couldn't talk to my ex after she ended but she keeps on trying to get to me!

Q.   Ok, so I hadn't talked my to my ex for a little over a month. She broke it off with me about 4 1/2 months ago and started seeing a new guy within a week or two. We went out for over a year and I thought that we would be with eachother forever. I ...

A.   27 June 2006: To be honest I don't personally believe in being friends with exes. Maybe it works for some people, but in most cases it's pretty difficult to get over somebody when you're speaking to them all the time. As you said, you were completely fine until ... (read in full...)

My ex made me tell him EVERYTHING and now I feel like I need to tell me current BF everything too! Help!

Q.   Ok my ex was VERY controlling. He made me tell him everything i had done in the past with people sexually and what i thought or talked about with people. This was when I didn't even know him so why he wanted to know, i don't know! Now that i have a...

A.   27 June 2006: You don't need to tell him anything. What you did in your past is your business. All that matters is who you are with now. Few people really like finding out about their partners sexual past. If he asks then maybe tell him, but since he hasn't, why ... (read in full...)

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