| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I hope someone can help me figure this out. My bf's ex-ex was the reason my bf broke up with his last gf. Now with me I think it's leading the same way. Basically his ex-ex and him are still in contact and even though I told him I don't feel comfortable with him talking to her he stills talks to her secretly. What should I do?
View related questions:
broke up, his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Shimmer +, writes (2 July 2006):
He should've realized that if his ex-ex caused his breakup with his last girlfriend, it's a bad idea to keep speaking to her.
My ex-boyfriend was still in contact with his ex when we were together, and it bothered me constantly because I knew they had really loved each other at one point. He assured me that he was over her and they were just friends, but I found out much later that they spoke about the past all the time and he still loved her. It's extremely difficult to get over your ex if you're speaking to them all the time, and I think that if my bf hadn't been talking to his ex he probably wouldn't have still had feelings for her. I certainly have my doubts your boyfriend is over his ex. If he was, he wouldn't have let her come between him and last girlfriend. And he wouldn't still be talking to her now while he is with you. He's going behind your back by talking to her when you asked him not to, and that's wrong. You explained it made you feel uncomfortable and he should respect that. Ask him exactly why he continues speaking to her and whether he is over her. There's definitley something fishy going on here why he won't give her up. The fact that it's affecting things between you two should be more important to him than keeping in contact with her. If he's unwilling to give her up, I'd rethink your relationship with this guy.
A
female
reader, ×KiTTy× +, writes (1 July 2006):
Girl you should tell him that he has to choose between you or her.If he's not willing to make the"sacrifise"he's not worth it.his loss.u deserve better.
...............................
|
