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Is it possible to leave everything behind and start a new life?

Q.   hi i have a very honest question to ask you and would like some honest opinions! i am a 21 year old girl, quite pretty with a pleasant,gentle and unique personality! at this point in my life i should be brimming with excitement, boys and nig...

A.   8 July 2009: Hi there! It's never to late your in a rut we all have them from time to time. My suggestion is this. get on your computer and look up dude ranching jobs in another country for the next season. I live in Montana and it's to late in the ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?

Q.   Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i ...

A.   8 July 2009: Wait awhile make sure and dont jump into anything. she could use a couple of years to mature even in india. And you might find there is some other passion in your life that you want to pursue, your only 18 give it some time.... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and he's in his 40's but I have really strong feelings for him...

Q.   Heyyah Everyone,, I need help i have started ti feel really strong for some 1 in there 40s since i have been talking to him i cant get him of my mind and i find him so amazing id love to just be with him. although he lives quite far away id love...

A.   8 July 2009: Hey there! I hope your still coming to this site and havent done anything about this "crush" I say crush because thats exactly what it is. First off there's no way you can ever have a real relationship between a 14 and a 40 year old not ... (read in full...)

Brother molested me

Q.   when i was 5 years old my parents went out for a couple of hours so my oldest brother who is 14 was baby sitting me and my 6 year old brother, we were all in my parents room watching tv and my oldest brother told my younger brother to go down stairs ...

A.   8 July 2009: It might be hard to get him arrested because of statute of limitations laws but he needs to be confronted by you your family and police. You may be able to get a restraining order against him and that would be a good start. Try talking to your ... (read in full...)

He is mistrusting, paranoid, insecure and trying to control my life

Q.   This story sounds minor but it pretty much sums up my relationship with my boyfriend of two years, who I love dearly and he wants me to move to Italy (where he is from)... So I bought two pairs of shoes, I work in a professional setting. The he...

A.   8 July 2009: Try having a very serious talk with him about these issues. Tell him exactly what you wrote here and let him know that it is ruining your relationship. People can change if they relize that thier actions are going to cause them to lose the thing ... (read in full...)

I constantly feel the need to urinate!

Q.   I know this isnt a relationship question, but my parents are gone until tomorrow and I need some help. Today I woke up and I went to use the bathroom, after I felt alot of discomfort after that lasted about ten seconds. It almost felt like the st...

A.   8 July 2009: hey there! Try going to webmd.com and typing in your symptoms. They usually give clear and precise answers to all symptoms and will have some questions on there that might coincide with yourown click on those and it might give you a better idea of ... (read in full...)

I can't stop staring at other girl's bodies!

Q.   This is really embarrassing. Ok here goes. I think I might be a Bisexual. I mean I really like guys and that'll never change (in fact I'm kind of in love with this guy, and I think he likes me too) But here's the thing. I get turned on by girls....

A.   8 July 2009: hey there! just stumbled on to this and felt compelled to offer a guy's perspective. I think it's safe to say that you are a normal smart young person. You relize something about yourself and instead of bottling it up and trying to ignore i... (read in full...)

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