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He punched and body slammed me several times... but he was drunk!

Q.   My husband of two years seem so perfect for me until we moved together in 2005 he choked, body slammed and punched me several times but only when he was drunk. I saw the signs but still married him in 2007 because he said he would stop drinking. ...

A.   1 September 2009: I forgot to say,if an argument starts and your in the kitchen,or anywhere where there are weapons or where there is no outside door,try and move out of the area and plan the route you will use to escape the house in an emergancy and reherse it if ... (read in full...)

He punched and body slammed me several times... but he was drunk!

Q.   My husband of two years seem so perfect for me until we moved together in 2005 he choked, body slammed and punched me several times but only when he was drunk. I saw the signs but still married him in 2007 because he said he would stop drinking. ...

A.   1 September 2009: girl,please delete this site off your browser history when you've finished on here-I imagine if he knew you were on here talking about him he would go mental-from the sound of it,this man dosen't want to quit drinking-he may say whatever he needs to ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure which guy is the father!

Q.   Im 26 and just found out Im pregnant. The thing is, I have slept with 2 men - one 4 weeks ago, just a day after I finished my period and someone else 2 weeks ago. Im unsure who the father is but I think it is more likely to be the guy I slept wi...

A.   27 August 2009: yes,most probably the second one... (read in full...)

I've just had an abortion, and I'm having trouble coming to terms with it

Q.   I've decided to have an Abortion.. how will I ever get through it? I feel so hopeless. My boyfriend broke up with me. I feel so alone. I didn't want this, but I know it's the best choice for me. I am young.. and my boyfriend (well ex) is a big ...

A.   26 August 2009: sweetie,please don't have an abortion-it will be the biggest regret of your life,it is bound to be excruciatingly hard to go through the pregnancy at your age ,without your boyfriend and having a child will be terrifiying at first,but think about ... (read in full...)

Were we being stalked?????

Q.   Last year we had a field trip to Canada. There was a guy there he had on all black and black sunglasses like he was trying not to be seen or trying to steel something. Well anyway after we left the theme park me and my bff relized we had seen him ...

A.   25 August 2009: yes,he most probably was stalking you-he sounds like a peadophile-his behaviour was not normal-if I was you I would phone the manager of the theme park and let them know a lone man has been hanging around,looking at kids and your'e sure he was ... (read in full...)

Is it selfish to go off to uni when you're in a serious relationship?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months now. I'm 18 and he's 22, every things great. we love each other so much and i am so happy with him. Anyway the problem is, he's a plumber/electrician and still lives with his parent. Whereas i have ...

A.   25 August 2009: I don't think your'e being selfish and can completely understand your being excited about uni after having studyed hard for 2 years,however,though it's not your fault,your boyfriend will clearly be miserable if you move far away-If you love him ... (read in full...)

Is making out with my sister incest?

Q.   I could use advice. I was playing with my sister and we started to make out i kissed her and she didnt pull away or get mad.I kissed her more and touched her breast and began to suck them she was just wearing a tank top and tight shorts i began ...

A.   21 August 2009: seriously stop-your poor parents would be so devastated if they found out,try putting yourself in their shoes-and what if one day you couldn't control yourselfs and she got pregnant? You must know that would tear your family apart,stop now,someone ... (read in full...)

Feeling left out and thinking of having a one night stand...

Q.   I am fed up that I am the only one im my group of friends that has not been laid yet. Does anyone have any tips on how to have a one night stand or find girls that are willing to do it with me? Its sad and pathetic at my age that I have not kissed ...

A.   20 July 2009: if you want to find a girl who likes you and fancies you enough to eventually sleep with you here are some tips: .be clean and presentable at all times and if you smoke,give up-no over gelled hair,yellow teeth,stinky breath-personally,I find it ... (read in full...)

I think he's having sex with his daughter!

Q.   i am with a man in his late 40's he has a daughter living with him who is 18 i have known this man for 15yrs now and am madly in love with him. I really feel that he is having sex with his daughter and cannot get it out of my head. I have ...

A.   16 July 2009: I havnt been in this situation but I know a few perverts and I believe your not being paranoid-you're obviously suspicious for a reason-hopefully it's not what it seems like but if you tell me what you've noticed I'll tell you what I think-if ... (read in full...)

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