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I told my BF that I want to lose my virginity but now I'm scared!

Q.   hello... ok well im 16 and my bf is 18.... im a virgin.. we have been so close to doin it but i stop him..he always says hes ''sorry'' that he just gets so carried away... n dat we wont do anything i dnt want to do... so yesterday we were tlki...

A.   27 December 2008: well listen if he really loves and cares about you he'll wait as long as you want him to wait....seriously...trust and believe i know for a fact.....just let him know that you thought you were ready but your really not....if he really loves you like ... (read in full...)

My periods started about a month ago. Should I tell my mother?

Q.   about a month ago or something like that i started my peroids and i was a little confused as the colours changed and i wasnt sure wether it was my period or not, but i later found out that it was - i never told my mum because i just couldnt bring ...

A.   15 June 2008: yes go ahead and tell your mother.....she needs to know about things like that....if you feel uncomfortable telling her make sure u tell her when no one is around...just a one on one mother and daughter talk...just know that now you got your period ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and a virgin my boyfriend want's sex!

Q.   I have a problem with my boyfriend. He always asks me to have sex with him. but i really don't want to. I'm only 13 and I want to keep my virginity for a while. I've told him no so many times and I keep telling him no. It's so annoying. What sho...

A.   15 June 2008: if he loves you he'll wait for u.....if not move on...dont let him force u doing nothin you dont wanna... (read in full...)

Are you still a virgin after fingering?

Q.   I have one question. If your boyfriend fingers you through your jeans, does that still make you a virgin?...

A.   15 June 2008: yes your a virgin.......until a penis has entered u... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity just recently and my inner thighs hurt very much. Any way to stop this?

Q.   I lost my virginity a few days ago to my boyfriend, and although (after the initial pain went) it felt good, my inner thighs hurt like hell. Sorry if this sounds crude, but every time I have a guy between my legs it kills! Will this go after we've ...

A.   15 June 2008: your probabaly just not use to yor legs open in that position.....maybe u should start strecting you legs out more and see wat happens... (read in full...)

He wants to take my virginty during our outing with his parents!

Q.   ok, so me and my boyfriend are going to a monster truck show and he wants to have sex during our outing (6:00 PM- about 1:00 AM) He says that he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I just feel like losing my virginity ...

A.   15 June 2008: 1st off if he really loves you like he says he do...then he'll wait for when you're ready...i told my boyfriend today that i wanted to wait and he said he'll wait for me...let him kno how u feel....if he doesnt wanna wait then that means that love ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. Help please!

Q.   Hi, my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me at the moment. Its been since last sunday that we had sex. I am really frustrated, but trying not to let it show. I asked her what was wrong and she claims that she has no sex drive. 2 days ag...

A.   15 June 2008: Maybe shes on her period or just going thru things and its on her mind too much and she doesnt think about sex alot....you should try to cuddle up with her and hold her...maybe she just needs you to love her and not f*ck her...lol....try kissing on ... (read in full...)

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