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B/f never initiates sex unless he's been drinking

Q.   Of course in the beginning things are always hot and heavy but lately my sex life has went to shit. I'm just looking for suggestions of how to boost back up his interest. I'm not looking for the typical "get naked and/or start rubbing up against ...

A.   19 December 2008: tired OR** watching sports... (read in full...)

B/f never initiates sex unless he's been drinking

Q.   Of course in the beginning things are always hot and heavy but lately my sex life has went to shit. I'm just looking for suggestions of how to boost back up his interest. I'm not looking for the typical "get naked and/or start rubbing up against ...

A.   19 December 2008: I appreciate the suggestions but this is not a man who is sick of making the move or self-conscious of himself in anyway. I make the move plenty of times, that's what I'm sick of, cuz half the time they are failed attempts cuz he's tired of ... (read in full...)

Bisexual trouble

Q.   Hi, I am kind of having problems writing about my issues in a structured way so please bear with me... I always knew I could love a person of either gender, but ended up sleeping with guys and eventually falling in love with one. We have bee...

A.   19 December 2008: Need to know a little more about what exactly you're looking to find here. In regards to the sex making you feel "polluted" could it possibly be because you have feelings for this guy and you want the sex to mean more but feel he's just in it for ... (read in full...)

How do I attract a boyfriend before I get any older and lonelier?

Q.   hi how do i get a boyfreind when you overweight and shy and very low self estreem.but i am always getting by the guys the likes who always some one elea but never me.i am 30 yaers old,never had boyfreind once in my life and never even experenc...

A.   4 December 2008: Sounds cliche I'm sure but you're never gonna attract a man until you're happy with youself. If it's you're weight, work out, I personally had low self-esteem before when I was overweight and I just sucked it up and pushed myself to work out. It ... (read in full...)

I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely and unloved if I don't.q

Q.   Hi, yeah I'm pretty young and I have this huge problem that affects me a lot and I need some help. I guess you could say that I always have to have a boyfriend because I'm lonely without one and I just don't feel loved. But the thing is...I haven't ...

A.   4 December 2008: It sounds to me like you're spending too much of your time looking for affirmation externally. You need to stop looking for love elsewhere and the only way you can do that is to start realizing you're okay on you're own. Even when you do get into ... (read in full...)

Is love a one shot deal? I feel like I'm losing him and there's nothing I can do...

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, the first year of our relationship was rocky to say the least as he had something traumatic occur in his life that consequently made him unable to be close to anyone and he kind of just blocked me ...

A.   4 December 2008: In response to your suggestion, I've actually thought about that on numerous occasions but being a student in University, money is not a luxury, the night after our big fight I actually made the first move and cooked us a lovely dinner and set up ... (read in full...)

Now that we're older, how do we formalise dating?

Q.   Hey - little bit confused, someone help. When we were younger, going out with someone was formalised by saying "will you go out with me?" It was simple and you knew exactly where you stood. Now that we're older, how do we formalise dating? ...

A.   4 December 2008: I'd have to agree, have you guys kissed? Even this though is not enough, my boyfriend and I were "seeing each other" for I don't know how long before I found out we were actually together. How do relationships get formalized when you're older, ... (read in full...)

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