How broke is too broke in a relationship?
Q. I have asked twice before. I still didn't break up with my long distance boyfriend in spite of aunts and uncles telling me so. Some aunts told me his insecurity would cause problems. One uncle said this is a fantasy relationship. My mom told me t...
A. 7 July 2012: If he has an active dating profile after all this time, and goes back to it to lie repeatedly - OMG!!!!
Have you visited with him? DO you know first hand what his doemstic life is like? Are you sure the fact he has a problem paying for dates is... (read in full...)
I feel like he is teasing me to see how much I can take.
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy of about 6 months. Recently, we had some issues with trust and ever since that happened, I feel like he is testing me to see how much I can take and if I will get jealous. He told me tonight I can't ...
A. 7 July 2012: Umm - there is no relationship - he is a player and he is playing you. I am so sorry that this is happening as it is so completely demoralising and hurtful and just downright wrong. Put your status to 'single' and stop letting him run/ruin your ... (read in full...)
I'm truly smitten but he wants to keep it a casual relationship. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 41 and just came out of a 20+ year marriage. Met a guy online, met in real life, 'clicked' physically and (for me at least) emotionally. But he hasn't. THe sex is incredible - first person I have orgasmed with ever - and I am utterly smit...
A. 11 June 2012: Original poster here - thanks for all the advice girls (and guys). You are right of course; he IS playing me and I have told him I know he is. Much as I don't want to I have deleted his number, email address etc.
Thank you for telling me what ... (read in full...)
I'm truly smitten but he wants to keep it a casual relationship. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 41 and just came out of a 20+ year marriage. Met a guy online, met in real life, 'clicked' physically and (for me at least) emotionally. But he hasn't. THe sex is incredible - first person I have orgasmed with ever - and I am utterly smit...
A. 10 June 2012: Have to agree with the previous posters - you are on a high road to nowhere, great sex or not :-( Sorry hunni you sound so sad and this is not what you want to hear but you aren't going to be happy.... (read in full...)
In love with two men...and my boyfriend doesn't know!!
Q. Hello I need help or advice with a problem I created for about 6 years. Im in love with two people and my boyfriend doesnt know about the other man. I met my boyfriend now father of my two year son about 6 years old. We were both young and we had m...
A. 10 June 2012: I think, maybe, you answered your own question. I can't make a moral judgement about this - I am one of a minority who doesnt believe there is "the one". Guy number one satisfies some of your emotional needs as does guy number 2. THe big question ... (read in full...)
How to write a letter to your ex without pushing him away- Help! My brain hurts!
Q. I have had an ongoing saga with my ex for almost a year now. He broke up with me and was with someone else, all the while calling me to tell me he cared about me, missed me and was confused. They broke and he came into town and wanted to see me and ...
A. 10 June 2012: It sounds as though you are his "reserve". Ignore him, go cold turkey and don't try to mend him. You can't. Move on. Sorry to be so abrupt but I remember doing the same thing and it kills a little part of you every time it doesn't work HUG... (read in full...)
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