It's a cliche, I know... but I've fallen for a young, blonde attractive member of my staff...
Q. This sounds like a cliche but I feel that I need help to get it out of my system. I have fallen for a member of my staff. She is 10 years younger blond, slim attractive and available. I have been married and faithful (ish) for 21 years so there's ...
A. 20 July 2005: If your wife IS so fabulous then may I pose the question of why you cheated on her? I just can't help wondering why you'd do something like that. It is very selfish and it seems to me that you just want to have your cake and eat it. What would you ... (read in full...)
I feel inadequate because my ex isn't beating up on his new girlfriend like he did on me!
Q. I lived with a man 22 yrs my junior. He is very controlling and power driven. He became violent and I have a permanent restraining order against him. I didn't want to care for him anymore so threw him out. He has another woman now who is carin...
A. 20 July 2005: Let him get on with his life and don't worry about what he's doing with his current squeeze.Who cares if they're doing anything different? The main thing is how he was with you, remember that! Wasn't nice was it? People like that don't change! You ... (read in full...)
My ex broke it off, but he still calls and says he misses me. What do I do?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 7 months. Just last week we broke up because he is saying that it just did not work out. Know he just wants to be friends. I don’t think I could just be his friend because I'm still in love with him like cra...
A. 20 July 2005: I think you need to get things straight with this guy. Tell him what you want and ask him what he wants. If it's just sex on a platter then you need to show hime the door because as good as it could be, it's a recipe for disaster because you'll be ... (read in full...)
My holiday fling turned into the Real Thing for me, so why haven't I heard from him?
Q. Hi, I just learnt about this site from a friend,. I have a problem, I just had a vacation, a well deserved one. I met someone through work, we talked for hours we conneceted. For the first time I met someone who really listened to me and made feel ...
A. 20 July 2005: I don't like to pass judgement so all i can do is talk from previous experiences. I am twenty and my holiday romance happened when i was 17, SINGLE with out any ties and living the moment. I was innocent and also got caught up in the fireworks that ... (read in full...)
I like my boyfriend's daughter... but worry about why I'm jealous of their relationship!
Q. I have been dating my b/f for about 3 years now. He has a daughter from a previous relationship who lives with us. I never thought I would be a stepmom, I hate it! Don't get me wrong, I love this girl so much. I'm 23, she is 8. We talk all the ...
A. 20 July 2005: I don't understand why a lot of you think that this poor girl should be made to feel guilty about how she feels.
Why?? I am sure many people out there are exactly like her feeling like they HAVE to take second place to their boyfriends child. Why,... (read in full...)
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