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writes: I have been seeing this guy for about 7 months. Just last week we broke up because he is saying that it just did not work out. Know he just wants to be friends. I don’t think I could just be his friend because I'm still in love with him like crazy. When I try to get over him he’ll call a say that he "misses me and the kids" or can he "come over and have sex" with me. Should I tell him the best thing to do is just not call me any more because I don’t just want to be his friend, I want to be his lady again??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): u should def. tell him u cant see him unless hes wants to be serious again i have gone through that sooo many times with my ex boyfriend of 3 years, trust me its not worth it if he loves u he'll consider ur feelings if not than he was never worth it in the first place. ur just playin urself by letting him get what he wants if ur not happy with it.......
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reader, salsa_de_tomate18 +, writes (20 July 2005):
I think you need to get things straight with this guy. Tell him what you want and ask him what he wants. If it's just sex on a platter then you need to show hime the door because as good as it could be, it's a recipe for disaster because you'll be the won mending a broken heart. I am sure he'll just be getting on with things in his every day life until the next time he needs some free loving. Are you going to provide that for nothing in return. Thius guy obviously has some commitment issues and until he works them out, you don't want to be messing around with that. I think it's best to establish a friendship with someone new and go from there.This guy doesn't seem to be doing you any good. I hope it all works out for you.
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