He loves me but doesn't want to spend time with me?
Q. I am a 37 yo female who has been dating a recent divorcee. He is the most wonderful man I have met. He is a Great dad to his kids that he has 5-6 days out of the week because they have a sorry mother. She cheated on him a year ago, and ask for a ...
A. 8 May 2012: I can empathise with you here. I am dating a man (he lives one hour from me). We have been together for two years. He has joint custody of his daughter and he is heavily committed to her as she has schooling and sporting commitments that he has ... (read in full...)
Should I give him an ultimatum or wait for his divorce?
Q. I am in my mid 50's. My partner and I have been dating for over two years. He lives an hour from me and has joint custody of his 17 yr old daughter. We both have our own businesses so are happy not to live together at this stage. His wife is an ...
A. 8 May 2012: Thanks everyone for your advice which has been taken on board. I agree with almost all of what you have said in your answers. I am going through menopause so my day to day mood swings change the way I look at this situation which is very ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend almost hit me, did I make the wrong choice by forgiving him?
Q. 2 days ago i was at my boyfriends house (we r both 18 and have been together for 2 years) and he was studying for some upcoming test. I was getting bored so I started talking to him asking him questions like "how is the studying going" etc. I"ll ...
A. 6 June 2011: GET.OUT.NOW! I have been in a relationship like this and believe me it only gets worse. Your b/f has anger management issues. Everyone gets stressed and reacts in different ways but to pin you up against a wall and nearly punch you is ... (read in full...)
He won't get a divorce till the property settlement. Am I being used?
Q. I have been dating a guy for 18 months. We dated over 25 years ago and have re-connected after he split from his wife. He is going through a property settlement with her (they are not divorced) and it will be long and protracted as it is worth a ...
A. 2 June 2011: Last poster 1/6 I understand that alcoholism is an illness. I am sure we all know people with addictions/illnesses or whatever you want to call them. When an addiction becomes a problem is when the person who has the problem refuses to acknowledge ... (read in full...)
He won't get a divorce till the property settlement. Am I being used?
Q. I have been dating a guy for 18 months. We dated over 25 years ago and have re-connected after he split from his wife. He is going through a property settlement with her (they are not divorced) and it will be long and protracted as it is worth a ...
A. 1 June 2011: To anonymous posted 31/5 maybe you should read the question and all the extra information I put down before you start mouthing off. I know that his daughter should always come first. I didn't imply she shouldn't. I was pointing out that he paid ... (read in full...)
Can an abusive person change their ways?
Q. I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...
A. 31 May 2011: I have been in relationships with abusive men and believe me NOTHING EVER CHANGES, IF NOTHING EVER CHANGES. The only person that can change is the abuser themselves and it sounds like he either 1. Does not want to change. 2. Does not think there is ... (read in full...)
He won't get a divorce till the property settlement. Am I being used?
Q. I have been dating a guy for 18 months. We dated over 25 years ago and have re-connected after he split from his wife. He is going through a property settlement with her (they are not divorced) and it will be long and protracted as it is worth a ...
A. 31 May 2011: Thanks to you all for your varied answers. I will endeavour to sit down and talk with my partner and try to get him to understand my feelings. He has a lot of good qualities and I think he is worth hanging in there for. It is always good to get ... (read in full...)
He won't get a divorce till the property settlement. Am I being used?
Q. I have been dating a guy for 18 months. We dated over 25 years ago and have re-connected after he split from his wife. He is going through a property settlement with her (they are not divorced) and it will be long and protracted as it is worth a ...
A. 26 May 2011: Thank you for everyone's input. I see value in all of the answers. I am a person who is not good with confrontation and I actually cried reading these answers as they all hit a nerve. I am seeing my partner this weekend and I will try to talk to ... (read in full...)
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