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He got drunk and kissed another girl. Should I risk giving him my whole heart again?

Q.   I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years now. This is my first relationship, but not his. Lately we've been fighting a bit, but nothing spectacular. Everything has been getting resolved within hours of the argument. A couple of days a...

A.   15 February 2009: so as an update, he broke up with me and less than a week later started dating this girl he kissed (this was back in October). go figure...... (read in full...)

It's like we say "I love you' out of habit now. I don't want to hurt her - which is worse, staying in this comfortable but sparkless relationship or leaving?

Q.   Ok so here goes. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 years with a wonderful woman. She is sweet, kind, funny, smart, all the things you could possibly want in a mate, but for some reason the spark is all but gone. I'm just not physically ...

A.   14 October 2008: My boyfriend of nearly 3 years broke up with me a few days ago, not because we were fighting or because someone cheated on the other, but because he felt our relationship wasn't going anywhere. He felt bored in a way that I feel is similar to what ... (read in full...)

I can't come and don't stay wet for long some times, why is this?

Q.   me and my fience' have been together almost two years, the sex is great, but there are two problems.i cant cum, and sometimes when we have sex for a while i get dried up. why is that?...

A.   4 September 2008: I don't think the fact that you are dry necessarily has everything to do with the relationship... every body is different. I'm a little dry myself most of the time (unless I've already orgasmed), and I used to think it was because I was on the pill, ... (read in full...)

What are some household items I can use as lube? I don't want to go to a sex shop.

Q.   What are some everyday things that can be found in a house that can be used as lube and dildo.I don't have the courage to go in to a sex shop.I'm a guy so it would look weird,btw I live in an apartment so I can't really hide it from my parents.I ...

A.   31 August 2008: If you don't want to buy anything special to use as lube, it's possible to use anything from vegetable oil (not a lot, and it's kind of messy) to conditioner (smells really nice). Basically if it's safe to eat or put on your body, it'll be ok to put ... (read in full...)

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