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Should I give into my desire to cheat? Or try my best to push it away?

Q.   I really need some help. We have been married one year. I love this woman with all my heart. While we were still dating though. My then girlfriend, now wife, took a trip home to visit her family. They live two states away. While she was over the...

A.   20 April 2010: Hi there, This woman is your wife and she is carrying your baby. She made a mistake sometime ago which she has paid for. She begged for your forgiveness and changed her behaviour. I personally think that if she didn't feel you were the man for her ... (read in full...)

Slept with ex and need some advice!!

Q.   I recently split with my boyfriend of 4.5 years. The past 5 months have been a rollercoaster and although we only seperated 6 weeks ago i think i came to terms with it over a long period of ups and downs. We do not get along anymore and he is not ...

A.   19 April 2010: Hello, I would think that right now you desperately need some me time to clear your head. You need to stop all contact with both men in order to be able to make an informed decision. Don't forget that an ex is an ex for a reason. You were pro... (read in full...)

How early is too early?

Q.   Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or ...

A.   19 April 2010: Hey again, If you feel your self confidence isn't letting you then you are not ready yet I don't think. Until you are 100% sure and ready, my advise is to wait. Be patient. You have loads of time. If he feels you are the one he wants to be w... (read in full...)

Friend says she wants to sleep with me

Q.   (Moderator note: broke this into paragraphs to make it easier to follow) One weekend back when I was in school I saw a girl from one of my classes walking by the food court in the mall. I just happened to see that she had some type of accident...

A.   19 April 2010: Dear Anonymous, I must commend your courage. You have known this girl for a few years now from what I read but the closest you have ever become is friends. If you both want it to be more than that then my advice is to do it right. I don't advise s... (read in full...)

Fell for my ex again, but she doesn't feel the same way

Q.   ive fallen for my ex girlfriend again after we split up to years ago because i was going through a tuff time at home. i have made my feelings known to her an says she does still like me and she wants to want me but cant seem to feel the same way she ...

A.   19 April 2010: Dear willow1989, The one thing you don't want to do is scare her away. Take it one day at a time. Let her lead it where she wants it to go. You have done the most you can do by letting her know how you feel and its up to her now. Don't push it.... (read in full...)

Fell for him be he started going out with someone else before I could tell him

Q.   Hi guys/girls (IM sorry if it seems im pouring my heart out but i dont really have anyone to talk 2 ) im katie in 24 and compleatly lost at the moment, i really likes this guy slept with him 2 fridays ago, then the weekdend of that friday(...

A.   19 April 2010: Hello, You obviously have very strong feelings for him for you to go to the lengths you have to find out if it is serious between him and the other girl. I don't know if you two have talked or seen each other since the night you spent togeth... (read in full...)

How early is too early?

Q.   Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or ...

A.   19 April 2010: Hello, I am 27 and I had my first sexual relationship when I was 20. It is up to you to decide how early is early although I would advise leaving it as late as possible. Your virginity is yours and no-one should influence you or force you to give ... (read in full...)

He's in no hurry to divorce his wife! what should I do?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for two years who is separated. he is so good to me and we have such a great relationship. I could never imagine my life without him in it but my problem is everytime I mention him getting a divorce he gets offensive and ...

A.   19 April 2010: Dear Anonymous, You have to decide if the way the relationship is going is fine with you and whether you are prepared to carry on with it for the long term. As much two years is a long time to be going out with someone for them not to have dec... (read in full...)

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