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Do I chose my family or the love of my life?

Q.   i am a hindu girl.i am in love with a christian boy.my family is against this affair.they want me to marry a hindu .but i cant.we love each other so much.he is very sincere and loving.but then i dont want to hurt my parents.what will i do.i want my ...

A.   30 January 2008: This is a really big deal. I am super close to my family - a real daddy's girl of sorts - so I said I would never be with a guy my Dad didn't approve of. If you aren't very close though then I encourage you to seek the guy out; however you may want... (read in full...)

Mothers.. When should I stop breastfeeding my child?

Q.   At what age should I stop breast feeding my child? I'm about to be a new mom, and some have told me 3 months, others have told me 3 years. I just want some honest opinions from women who have already had children and weaned them. Thanks for any...

A.   30 January 2008: each child has a threshold point where if they are still breast feeding at that point then it will become extremely difficult for them to stop. I would recommend feeding via the breast for 3 months or so and then continue pumping but using a bottle ... (read in full...)

Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?

Q.   i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...

A.   30 January 2008: Trust me - I am 6 years older than you and my friends are even older. It seems like everyone is doing it - maybe yes maybe no. This is a perception thing. Anyway most of my close friend were like you and held back until they found a special ... (read in full...)

Am I talking too much to his parents about his affair?

Q.   My husband of ten years had an affair with a woman for 10 months. She works 2 blocks from his office and they see each other daily. I caught him and he confessed and so did she. Both of them told me that it was over and that it was merely sexual ...

A.   30 January 2008: He made the mistake not you and people finding out is gard on you both - maybe he should have thought it through first. He needs to understand that he wasn't wronged - you were and you are not suppose to be grovelling - he is. You won't get past... (read in full...)

How can I be neutral on this guy who I had a crush on from day one??

Q.   Hi... So I got married to such a great guy a year and a half ago when I was 19. He's so sweet and supportive and I adore him and we're so happy together! Before I started going out with my husband (2 1/2 years ago) I had a big crush on his best fri...

A.   30 January 2008: I had this problem and in a way still do - luckly I am engaged not married but here is what my mom said tp me... Every women and man is going to meet someone who they feel drawn to - you may know very little about the person. This is not a feeling... (read in full...)

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