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Was I wrong - or was it him?

Q.   Ok, I'm going to try and have this be the last question I post because I'm getting a little out of hand with posting questions on here. Anyway, I need reassurace like always because I have a lot of self doubt now that I broke up with my ex fiance ...

A.   12 December 2007: The guy was obviously an emotional manipulator. I'm sure he is sorry because he acted like a jerk. Just remember he was the one who said he wanted you out, he just feels stupid because you actually left. He wasn't treating you like an equal and your ... (read in full...)

Did I act foolishly by suggesting if she is wasting my time... ? How can I mend this?

Q.   Hi, I was dating this girl - we have gone out about 15 times. Every time was great and she showed real interest. She told me once she was falling for me so her walls were going up. The last couple times we hung out she was distant but we still wou...

A.   12 December 2007: I hate to say it but you may have completely blown it. When she told you that 'she was falling for you but her walls were going up' she was telling you that she just didn't want to get her heart ripped out because she has feelings for you. Instead ... (read in full...)

Worried I could be pregnant!

Q.   hi all, just wanted to ask a quick question. I started to take the pill last monday but my period hadnt finished yet, then i had sex with my bf on the tues and we used condoms, however its now a week later and im feeling bloated and im worried maybe ...

A.   12 December 2007: I would say that any time you have sex, even with precautions, there's a tiny chance you could get pregnant but I don't think it's likely in your case. If you are really worried about it take a test, that way you don't stress out so much that your ... (read in full...)

Is there a chance I'm pregnant? I'm scared!

Q.   well im fallen in loove with my boyfriend so since im a virgin i decided to wait awhile before we have sex but one time when i was drunk he rubbed his penis on my vagina. like he was trying to put it in but he couldnt. im not sure if there was ...

A.   10 December 2007: I would say that you are 99.99999999% not likely to be pregnant. If precum got on you from him and then by some chance was pushed up into you while he fingered you it would really be unlikely that you were ovulating at the time. Honestly, I think ... (read in full...)

I need reassurance with my decision.

Q.   I've posted many times on here because I'm still struggling with breaking up with my ex. I felt that he disrespected me by asking me to smoke or drink over and over after I had said no many times. He also, made me feel guilty for wanting to stop ...

A.   10 December 2007: You definately did the right thing. If you have to question if you should be with someone then you already know deep down inside that you shouldn't. You'll be so much happier to be with someone who supports you in your morals and loves you for being ... (read in full...)

I'm not sur if my boobs are rite help!

Q.   Hi i have 2 questions. 1 is that my one of my boobs is smaller than the other, i dont always notice it but sometimes there seems to be a big difference and i get rly paranoid that boys, if they look, mite c a difference to. and numba 2 is that i ...

A.   10 December 2007: There is nothing wrong with you. You probaby notice te size changes more during a certain time of the month becuase of your hormones changing and the bumps are your milk ducts. Don't worry we, as woman, always see our faults under a microscope. I'm ... (read in full...)

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