My boyfriend told me he never loved her this way! Their emails say different...help!
Q. I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 or so months now but he is so much older than me and has lived so much life before me. He never really wants to talk about his previous relationships, bad times he went through, or he never ...
A. 19 July 2009: ya'll are awesome and so right! I really just needed reassurance. The past is the past and I have to move on from it. But as for the 16-17 age thing, that was when i made it, I'm 18 now but yeah he is a lot older, but we connect and our ages usually ... (read in full...)
My guy is under a lot of stress and I want to comfort him
Q. My boyfriend is having a big birthday coming up on July 12th. He has had a lot of pressure lately and he has been really down. I know I help to bring his spirits up usually but I just really want to do something incredibly special for him. I've ...
A. 7 July 2009: 0k thanks so much for all the imput! i appreciate all the great ideas. i think i have decided to do a scrapbook. i know it's cliche but i think he'll really love it next year. i'm going to 1-4 of statements from the list of the things i love about ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 3 July 2009: thanks for all the advice. i have been taking it all into consideration. we have been seeing each other less and the intensity has lessened. we're trying to have more fun together and cherish the time we have together.... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 13 June 2009: I am hurt, but I don't think you are understanding the situation. I know he doesn't want to or mean to hurt me. We're just emotionally on two different levels but I don't know if I can handle it. I don't know how to be in a relationship on his ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 12 June 2009: No you're not right about all that! I don't think you understand it's not just him insisting we are a secret it's both of our agreement. Sure I complain about it but if we were completely open about our relationship, then we wouldn't be together. My ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 11 June 2009: Maybe you're right but how do you know you're right about him?... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 11 June 2009: Well you're right and we both know all of that and he hasn't lied to me about it. I would appreciate if you would stop assuming a lot of things about our relationship and in particular negative things about him. But he has had it taken away for more ... (read in full...)
Is she having an "emotional affair?"
Q. This is what is going on: She speaks and stares at me all of the time. She sometimes flirts with me. She sometimes sticks her tongue out at me. She sometimes pretends that she is upset. She doesn’t come directly at me and tell what her ...
A. 11 June 2009: She sounds pretty into you coming from a female perspective! She may just not be into or comfortable with making the first move regarding physical contact. Try taking her out/home and giving her a kiss and see how she reacts. Or if you're into and ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 11 June 2009: Also one more thing that may need to be clarified is concerning the legal issues. He was convicted of one DUI and one DWI. He spent a week in jail for one and community service and probation for the other. He payed his fines and is off supervised ... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?
Q. I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...
A. 11 June 2009: Wow that second comment was a little harsh, but I don't know if you're right about everything. My man has had legal issues and you were right on about them, but he no longer drinks. He went through some bad periods in his late twenties but they were ... (read in full...)
Do friends have oral sex? Can't girls make their own choices now?
Q. i have one question... do friends have oral sex? like normal friend, with no relationship at all. just friend. and is it wrong if the girl wants to stop it and try to value herself more and don't let him touch her anymore... is that a bad thing? or ...
A. 10 June 2009: yes girl be independent! Don't ever doubt yourself and your feelings. If you want to stop, all power to you. Having just a friend who gives and/or you give oral sex is awesome! ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend fought with my brother and I find his actions very disrespectful
Q. Yesterday my boyfriend started a fight with my 32 year old brother who lives on my property as to why he doesn't work and can't get off drugs. A discussion would have been ok but this was an all out screaming match with him calling my brother ...
A. 10 June 2009: You are completely right and rational to disapprove of what he did. You're right he shouldn't be worried about your brother if he has no affect on him. But check in with your bf. He sounds like he may have some unresolved, underlying issues going ... (read in full...)
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