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How can I ignore these feelings towards my friend and continue with my boyfriend?

Q.   So, I have a boyfriend named *Joe and he is absoutley perfect. We've been going out for a long time and he's a dream come true. He does everything for me and treats me like a princess. I'm truly in love with him and I can see myself spending the ...

A.   13 March 2009: i think it's fine to have more fun with a guy friend than with your boyfriend. i had that with my boyfriend of 4 years [ we broke up last year due to distance, nothing to do with friends! ] - i had an awesome time with our friend alasdair, like we ... (read in full...)

Sex or sweetness?

Q.   I am in love with two amazing girls and I cna t figure out which one to pick and I am hurting all of them including myself. Girl A I dated for 8 years and everything was amazing except the sex. She is caring, loving, and would do anything for me a...

A.   13 March 2009: have you tried just talking to girl a, in a sensitive way? maybe saying, you know, it would mean a lot to me if we could try x in bed, because i think it would make us a better couple in bed, more passionate, you know. i know that if she loves you ... (read in full...)

Does the fact that I love giving oral sex make me look bad?

Q.   i love performing oral sex on men. it makes me extra hot and ready. does this run guys off? like do they look to me as a whore for doing it? ...

A.   13 March 2009: i'm exactly the same - i love giving oral sex. the problem i find is that if you tell guys you like it they expect it ALL the time, sometimes in place of sex - leaving you unfulfilled! some guys think that because you like it, it'll actually m... (read in full...)

My boyfriend checks out other women all the time, how can I get him to stop?

Q.   my boyf is constantly pointing out the hotness of other women. at first when we met i laughed it off but it's really starting to hurt my feelings. i'm not an especially jealous person, i dont care about him saying some actress is hot or anything but ...

A.   13 March 2009: tell him you don't like it. i had this problem before, except my ex would actually say 'she's hot!' instead of looking at them all the tme. i just told him that it kinda upset me when he looked at other girls, just because it felt like he was... (read in full...)

Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?

Q.   ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...

A.   14 July 2008: i broke it off with him today. thank you everyone for your help 3 let's hope there's someone who isn't going to mess me about around the corner this time. ... (read in full...)

Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?

Q.   ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...

A.   10 July 2008: ok ... so, i talked to him on monday and found out that last month he slept with he ex ... he also said that he does 'think' about asking me out. *sighs* i think i know the answer T_T... (read in full...)

Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?

Q.   ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...

A.   4 July 2008: i'll be seeing him on monday, so i will definitely talk to him about it. thanks a lot!... (read in full...)

Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?

Q.   ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...

A.   4 July 2008: hey Smiles, thanks for your answer 3 i've never talked to him about other girls, because i only just started to worry about it, to be honest. the reason he doesn't want to commit is because his ex-girlfriend messed him around royally, and... (read in full...)

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