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What could be causing this vaginal odor?

Q.   Okay, I'm new here and hope that maybe this will help. Within the last few months, I've started having almost a fishy smell coming from my vagina. It started out smelling like protein and was very faint. There wasn't any unusual discharge or any...

A.   9 July 2009: It could be due to the coil. I had lots of problems with mine inc an infection that gave me a bad odour & odd discharge. You really do need to get checked out.... (read in full...)

Does this make me a slut even though I'm drunk?

Q.   Heyy So I have this problem where when I get drunk I'll hook up with random guys and most of the time are alot older than me. Does it make me a slut to hook up with random people even though I'm drunk?? ...

A.   9 July 2009: Being drunk lowers inahabitions, as you know...so there is no telling what might happen. It only takes you to hook up with 1 wrong person...and your life could be changed forever!... (read in full...)

How can I be sexually active again with these blisters?

Q.   hi i recently had blisters on my vagina and i got tested for std's and all tests were negative, these were really painful, the doctor can't test for anything else unless they show up again and though they have healed now i have scars and i find that ...

A.   9 July 2009: You need to see your dr again. If it is still sore then you are not properly healed & it would be irresponcible to have any sexual contact until you are sure 1] What it was/is 2] You are clear from it 3] Whether it is contagious or no... (read in full...)

Is it normal that sex still hurts?

Q.   I am 16 and my boyfriend and i just decided to have sex...and he has fingered me before and it feels good at first then like after 20ish min it stops feeling good and i dont like the feeling at all...i have a high pain tollerance and it still ...

A.   8 July 2009: Sex at first can feel odd, but shouldn't feel painful after the first couple of times. Are you sufficiently lubricated? If you are too dry then it will be sore and painful after a while. If you are dry, then you need more foreplay or some... (read in full...)

What do the brown spots mean?

Q.   hello there! I just want to know early as now if I am pregnant. My last period was june 11 and in between those days I had sex with my bf using withdrawal method but once he come inside me during my period. Last Saturday july 4, I had sex again wi...

A.   8 July 2009: The withdrawal method is not a reliable form of contraception. You need to really know your body and it's timings with regards to ovulation as some sperm can be released with the pre-ejaculation. Brown blood is usually old blood, which could indi... (read in full...)

I find my 19 year old step son attractive!

Q.   Hi. I'm a 32 year old woman. i recently found myself attracted to my 19 year old stepson, and i am seriously trying to fight these feelings. i would never pursue him or make any moves, because i think it's wrong, and i love his dad too much, but i ...

A.   8 July 2009: Was it love as in the way a child loves his parent, or the way an adult loves another adult? It could be that he is mistaking the two, hence the flirting. He may well meet someone his own age and realise how inappropriate it is for the two of y... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to have sex with a stranger I chat to in the Internet??

Q.   Hi, Im 15, and i met a girl on the internet who is 19. Ive been talking to her seriously about us and she asked if we wanted to meet up and to have sex. I said yes, shes attracted to me im attracted to her. We have shown eachother our parts on webc...

A.   8 July 2009: Agree with the others, she is too old at 19 and should know better. Also, very strange behaviour for a 19 yr old to be interested in 15yr olds!... (read in full...)

I'm married, she's married, we're both unhappy and have an affair, should we keep it going?

Q.   Hi I'm a 36 y.o man unhappily married with two beautiful girls ages 10 and 6. My lover, whom I met 9 months ago is also married she's 33 and has a teenage boy. My marriage has been on the rocks since about 3 years ago. thanks to my wife's me first ...

A.   8 July 2009: I think you need to be honest with yourself...if you are unhappy with your wife why do you stay? I don't buy all this staying for the children. They know at their ages that all is not good at home, their world will be a very different place ... (read in full...)

We're not as close as we used to be...help! I don't want to lose the love of my life!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, I love him to pieces, I don't think hes cheating or anything, its just that we're not as close as we were a few months ago. We don't talk as much and he's been a bit snappy, but every time I ask ...

A.   8 July 2009: What has happened in the last few months that preceded this change? You need to push him further than "I'm fine" to be honest. Keep talking, try & choose a time when there is no distraction. Relax him & gently coax it out of him.... (read in full...)

He doesn't seem bothered anymore, and I'm beginning to wonder if our relationship is over

Q.   I've been dating him for over a year and am so in love he's the sweetest person I've ever met, but im beginning to think our relationship is over, he doesn't pay attention to me like he used to or really even talk with me anymore.. I mean I try to ...

A.   8 July 2009: You need to talk to him, that is the only way to find out what has changed. Has he suffered a loss? Been made redundant? Honestly, communication is key to any relationship & you need to keep it open!... (read in full...)

When a guy is touching a girl, what should she do?

Q.   When a guy is feeling up a girl, what should the girl be doing? Something for the guy? Or just enjoy? Etc...

A.   8 July 2009: At your age, very little in all honesty! But over looking the age...It depends on the level of touching. Sometimes it is good to enjoy what he is doing & sometimes it is good to recipricate. You may decide to pleasure him when he is done ... (read in full...)

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