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Crushing on my best friend.....should I tell her?

Q.   I am getting these things .. and i am starting to think i am bi sexual .. but i don't wanna tell anyone .. atleast not yet , cause knowing the people i know .. they probably won't believe me for some silly reason . .and i don't know what to do about ...

A.   26 August 2011: There's no reason to worry yourself so much :) I'm sure that almost every one when at your age questioned their sexuality at some point; even I confess that I had a massive crush on my friend. Just because you're having feelings for your friend ... (read in full...)

My girlfriends are in a relationship and it's making me uncomfortable

Q.   One of my close friends (lets call her M) who i've been quite good friends with for about 4 years, has actually decided that she's bisexual, and she has a thing for my best friend (lets call her A) . I know A likes her back in a way, but not so ...

A.   3 May 2011: Even though your circumstances are a bit different, everyone goes through what you're feeling, you're not alone :) Feeling third wheel, watching someone you might like fall for someone else, questioning your sexuality etc. it's completely normal! ... (read in full...)

He's so focussed on the sexual side of the relationship that I almost want out

Q.   so im a pretty young woman with a boyfriend of almost a year now. he is funny and sweet but when we are together its all about sexual things. we don't get to see one another very often (long distance relationship) so i understand that he may want me ...

A.   22 February 2011: I can understand that maybe because he doesn't see you that often that he would want some sort of sexual activity when you are together, but to push himself on you like that is wrong. You need to set boundaries with him and see if he responds to t... (read in full...)

How to tell my boyfriend to workout ?

Q.   I want my boyfriend to workout. He seriously has everything I look for in a guy. But lately he has been gaining weight. I love him so much and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. But I really do not want him to just let himself go and m...

A.   30 December 2010: Well, a new year is about to begin and a typical resolution is to lose weight. Perhaps tell him something along the lines of that your new years resolution is to lose weight and get more in shape, that watching him when he was working out has given ... (read in full...)

We don't know what to talk about!

Q.   I just started dating a new girl we really like each other and love spending time together but if were just having a conversation it gets kind of awkward because we don't know what to talk about and don't know too much about each other yet. Is this ...

A.   30 December 2010: If you don't know too much about each other of course it's normal! You have no need to worry. Just focus on getting to know her better and the conversation topics should start flowing as normal. If you go out with each other try and do some... (read in full...)

She basically did everything possible that hurt me.

Q.   I have a question about an ex girlfriend. we met during our freshmen year in high school and went out for 3 years. i thought all throughout everything was good with the exception of a few arguments throughout the way but doesnt every couple argue ...

A.   30 December 2010: I think you are right to feel hurt, and no way are you being over sensitive. Seeing someone move on so quickly and come back to you is obviously going to make you confused and upset not knowing where you stand or if you can trust her, knowing how ... (read in full...)

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