I am really, really Jealous and grossed out about my wife's past sex life
Q. I have been with my wife for 5years, we have been married for 4 years. I love her with all my heart. I love her so much that I believe if we had met at any time in my life no matter what I was doing or what I had going on at the time, I would have ...
A. 9 May 2010: I think the key to this is that she WAS like this. I assume she has changed, and is not the same person as she was when she was young? Everyone is entitled to a past, no matter how dicey (but I think you understand that). If the thought of her as a ... (read in full...)
How do I stop people bullying me?
Q. I understand that no-one is perfect, but I have experienced so much bullying in my life that I am starting to lose trust in people. Wherever I go, I am being targeted by bullies for no reason. I don't know if it has anything to do with my Asperger's ...
A. 6 May 2010: OMG I just assumed you were a woman and didn't even LOOK at your gender! Blind one o.O
hopefully u can still pull something out of my advice lol ;)... (read in full...)
I Said "I Love You", He Answered "You to"
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 months. He always staring at me, doing nice things for me, and wanting to spend time with me. He totally accepts me for who I am. I have mentioned to him a few times how comfortable I feel around him, ...
A. 6 May 2010: If the things you're feeling (the looking into eyes etc) is from BOTH sides and not just you seeing what you want to see (which I don't think it is), then there's a pretty good chance that he's feeling what you're feeling! When I was 16, my BF said ... (read in full...)
How do I stop people bullying me?
Q. I understand that no-one is perfect, but I have experienced so much bullying in my life that I am starting to lose trust in people. Wherever I go, I am being targeted by bullies for no reason. I don't know if it has anything to do with my Asperger's ...
A. 6 May 2010: I think the one thing that will help is if you realise that people, in general, are nasty things. Just bear with me, because I know that sounds awful! But imagine you are whoever you think WOULDN'T be bullied? Maybe someone more outgoing, slimmer, ... (read in full...)
Should I look for a new woman or wait for one to enter my life?
Q. I am a 22 year old male and I recently went through a breakup with a girl that I had been dating for two and a half years. She broke up with me very suddenly about a month before I was going to propose to her. I had bought her a diamond engagement ...
A. 23 April 2010: I'm sorry you've had a bad time :/ I can't say I understand her behaviour, but I think you should get closure about it - find out the facts, but then move on. She owes you the truth about it. Perhaps shes just not ready, and you could suggest da... (read in full...)
Should I have outgrown fancying celebrities?
Q. I,m 18 years old and I still really fancy celebritys shouldnti,ve grown out of this?...
A. 23 April 2010: I don't think anyone EVER grows out of fancying celebrities. Because I'm anonymous, I can admit that I fancy Gordan Ramsey and Steven Tyler. And I'm 24. As long as you don't avoid real relationships because of some ideal fantasy person you have in ... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't tell him when I'm upset! It's always me in the wrong!
Q. i live 30 miles away from my boyfriend, and we do see each other as much as we possibly can. on monday my boyfriend didn't visit because he had a lecture on the tuesday morning. then tuesday my boyfriend came to visit. i didn't realise until th...
A. 23 April 2010: I know EXACTLY how you feel! My boyfriend has to go away for a week or 2 sometimes for his studies (we live together). When he tells me, i obviously get sad and say 'aww' etc. and he gets irritated. He even leaves it to last minute to tell me, as if ... (read in full...)
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