Everything looked great with the girl I want, but now she just wants us to be "friends"...
Q. I really need help on this one, I'm kind of cut up and confused. There's a girl at work who I've longed for for ages and who openly admitted she was very attracted to me. A couple of weeks ago we finally kissed & I was made up - something clicked ...
A. 11 May 2005: Bottling it up is the worst thing you could do. You need to tell her how you feel, if it's too difficult to her face, you could write her a letter or email, or even pretend to let your feelings for her slip by 'accident'. Maybe she won't decide t... (read in full...)
I'm keen on him, but I can't be sure how he feels about me...
Q. Approx a month ago I started seeing an amazing guy, he's gorgeous, fun and has a great personality, oh and great in bed. The problem is that he doesn't seem as keen on me as I am on him. Plus I've just ended a long term relationship with my caring ...
A. 10 May 2005: In my opinion, you're wasting your time yes. He's using you and it seems the many girls before you have realised this. There are things he's not telling you, otherwise you'd know his reasons for other relationships ending. If I were you I'd not let ... (read in full...)
I have difficulty socialising
Q. I'm a 26 year old male, who finds socialising extremely difficult. I crave
for people's attention, but do not seem to have the magnetic personality
that can keep a person enthralled. I wouldn't describe myself as
intellectually challenged. ...
A. 9 May 2005: You obviously have a lot of emotion inside you to be able to write what you just did, which shows that it isn't what you're capable of that's the problem, but your nerves. It seems you haven't been brought up in a very social environment, so you'r... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and in love with a guy age 19
Q. okay there is a guy who is 19 years old who i know for a fact is my first and true love even though we have not yet hooked up, i really want there to be an us. another problem is that i am 15 years old and that is a big age difference . he always ...
A. 9 May 2005: 15 to 19 is not a big age difference, and you'll realise that in a year or two. As young teenagers we have it drilled into us that same-age is right, but when we become more mature, we realise that this makes no difference. This guy is old enough to ... (read in full...)
Scared to ask him out, because he's already so popular
Q. There is a boy I really like at school and I want to ask him out. I would, it's just that he is quite popular with girls and I'm scared that if I ask him out I might get bullied or teased. Have you got any suggestions on what I could do please? ...
A. 9 May 2005: In my experience, you should ask him. You have to think 'What's the worst that could happen?' I fancied a popular guy at my school and I'm not exactly very popular myself. Admittedly I was more nervous than I'd ever been before, and only managed ... (read in full...)
My partner is so focussed on her son that she's lost interest in me...
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, and we were living together until her 15 year old son ran away from her ex-husband. Her son decided he would live with his gran and my partner followed. She said he was her no 1 priority. I did ...
A. 9 May 2005: To be honest, I think your behaviour here is selfish. Her son is obviously subconsciously damaged by his parent's break up, and may be feeling as though his mum's new relationship is pushing him away, causing his violent and desperately upset ... (read in full...)
Having sex with my boyfriend just seems to leave me... embarrassed.
Q. I am 19 and have been seeing my boyfriend, who is 21, for 11 months. We have had an sexual life for 6 months and neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else. When we do have sex, during and afterwords I don't feel great and happy like my ...
A. 8 May 2005: Are you and your boyfriend communicating with each other about sex as much as you could, or is thoughtless sex happening too much? It could be that you're embarrassed because you and your boyfriend aren't working together with sex, instead, you feel ... (read in full...)
She's flirty with me, but I don't know if I should ask her out...
Q. Hi I have been chatting with the girl next door for about 2 hours every night for about 2 weeks. I really like her and want to ask her out, the only problem is she has a young baby. So I don't know if she is looking for a relationship or not. She is ...
A. 8 May 2005: Hi. I think you should make a move, yes. If she's flirting with you she's obviously interested, but it's unlikely she'd make a move because of her nerves about the acceptance of her baby. If you let her know you were interested, I'm sure she'd ap... (read in full...)
He confuses me. It seemed like we clicked straightaway, but he never asked me out..!
Q. I have a situation. At the beginning of the school year I met this new guy at school. We clicked right away and would flirt in every class we had together, walk everywhere together, very touchy feely type of situation with the long hugs etc. Also ...
A. 8 May 2005: This boy obviously had feelings for you, but it seems your reluctance to answer with how you felt for him has confused him as much as it has you! This boy may be going out with the other girl to make you feel guilty because he still likes you, in ... (read in full...)
The girl that I like seems to be nice on her own, but her friends are another thing entirely!
Q. Hi, At my college there is a girl called Joanne and she is very attractive, kinda looks like Kirsty off Home and Away. Anyway she is nice to speak to. I spoke to her once after college when she was on her own and she is real nice but when I tri...
A. 8 May 2005: If she already had a boyfriend, it would be naive of you to build your hopes up. Often, girls who don't know how to say something to somebody will get their friends to say this for them, so it is very much possible that this girl does feel what her ... (read in full...)
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