Should I surprise him for V-Day and take him to a swingers place?
Q. with valentine day comming i want to do something special. our sex life is great, i know a fantasy of his is for someone to be watching or even a threesome, i just don't want it to ruin anything, or no regrets, my question is should i surprise him ...
A. 6 February 2009: Great advise, thank you Lola. I do have something planned, but I was just trying to spice things up a bit. ... (read in full...)
Porn and sex, not so black and white...
Q. Married for two yrs, one child. My husband and I have sex daily. He orgasms at least twice a day by sex, oral, and you name it, i'm game. Yet he still looks at porn. One, i am completely amazed he has it in him, and two it hurts that despite my best ...
A. 8 September 2008: I believe it's a guy thing. I'm not really sure why they have 2 watch it but they do. I am 43, my husband 48, been married for a year now, but just the other day I found a pic on his phone, which he had gotten on line 2 see of some ugly fat chick ... (read in full...)
My hubby rarely has initiatives, and I need to feel wanted! Would it be wrong to have an affair?
Q. I am married but I don't know what it is about me that I feel I need to have this affair. I have not yet gotten involved, but am seriuosly thinking about it. I have a few guy friends that really want to, knowing that I am married, but my question is ...
A. 5 September 2008: thank you all for your input. I believe it is also fantasizing that another man wants me. But there is a reason as to why I have not gone through with it. But everyone's advise sure does put things into perspective. Thank You... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair because my husband acts like I'm not important?
Q. i am 43, married, but i have always had guys around me. Never have been "alone". Recently got married, but i still have these guys as friends, my husband sometimes treatsme, i feel, as though I am not important to him. I am thinking about having an ...
A. 4 September 2008: Thank you both for your replies but things almost always go deeper than that. I do believe that cheating is wrong and hurtful, but I also feel this attraction to this other guy. I just don't know what to do.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I'm a sex addict because I want him to go down on me?!
Q. hi there i have a peculiar problem..my boyfriend doesnt want to go down on me..he makes me do it to him... he says hes never done it to another girl..though hes had sex a lot...i cant understand..he thinks im a sex addict..theres nothing wrong wi...
A. 4 September 2008: There is nothing wrong w/ you. We all love foreplay, I think!!! Have you ever asked him why he doesn't? Do a romantic set up, flower pedals on the bed, wine, music playing, candles lit, sexy lingerie, the works!! then you start on him, not sure what ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm in an unequal relationship due to her past!
Q. This is very common, I know! I started seeing my girlfriend almost 4 months ago, and right from the start we were very open about our sexuality and sexual past. I told her I had only had sex with one girl previously (my girlfriend of 6 years) and ...
A. 4 September 2008: I believe, in a way, she wants you to say something to the affect of, WoW! or How many guys? But when you said you'd only been w/1, it was almost like a competition to her. She wants to be the best. The reason some of us girls will "brag" about ... (read in full...)
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