Guys, what the hell? Why do you do this to us girls?
Q. I've been dating this amazingly gorgeous and super smart guy for over three months now. In the first weeks he was really into me, taking me out to dinner all the time and really affectionate with me. After two months I made the mistake of telling ...
A. 20 July 2012: if hes a good looking guy, girls are prob always falling for him too fast, he may be tired of that and enjoy having to work for love, or directing the relaitonship with the pace. instead of talking to him--which is what feels right to us as ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my jealous feelings about his texting with his female best friend!
Q. So today, I read my bf's text messages (he let me) between him and his girl best friend. They haven't talked for a few days, but I'm bothered. Keep in mind that he's not the person to really text, and when he does, it's short and to the point. ...
A. 20 July 2012: i think your instincts are spot on in terms of how your feeling about all of this. get this, when a guy wants you, he does all these great things, little details spot light on you and it makes you feel special. its what, in part, develops your ... (read in full...)
Older female falls for young men and gets hurt every time! Do I stop, or alter how I feel about the inevitable end?
Q. i know im in trouble. i even know how i got here. i just dont know how to stop. im a girl who is an artist and i enjoy the company of artistic feeling when it comes to love; sensuality, beauty, emotional feeling and connection, spunk and spirit...
A. 26 June 2012: update:
ive since distanced myself from the young military guy I wrote about, having seen so many of your comments reflected in his behavior and taking stock in the depleted way it makes me feel. this empty, scared feeling ive come to adopt is... (read in full...)
Older female falls for young men and gets hurt every time! Do I stop, or alter how I feel about the inevitable end?
Q. i know im in trouble. i even know how i got here. i just dont know how to stop. im a girl who is an artist and i enjoy the company of artistic feeling when it comes to love; sensuality, beauty, emotional feeling and connection, spunk and spirit...
A. 23 June 2012: thank you everyone for these answers. just to clarify; i very much want a ltr, one that has the elemants of sensuality, emotional depth, closeness and excitement. i have no problem being with people my age or older the problem i have is that i d... (read in full...)
Older female falls for young men and gets hurt every time! Do I stop, or alter how I feel about the inevitable end?
Q. i know im in trouble. i even know how i got here. i just dont know how to stop. im a girl who is an artist and i enjoy the company of artistic feeling when it comes to love; sensuality, beauty, emotional feeling and connection, spunk and spirit...
A. 22 June 2012: ahhh, so you're saying [kind of in essence, anyway] that a younger man who goes for a older girl is doing so because shes easier to talk to [younger girls are constantly being pursued and older woman arent so they are easier to strike up a ... (read in full...)
New boyfriend admitted he can't get an erection because of my weight and I'm devastated....Help!?
Q. I have an incredible new boyfriend I really like, but he has trouble getting and keeping an erection, and the reason is.....my weight. We are incredibly drawn to each other on so many levels- intellectually, emotionally, etc. He says he finds my ...
A. 22 June 2012: I have had two relationships with GREAT guys who had erectile dysfunction and guess what? the only ones who feel worse about it than you do are them!!! but neither of them did a thing about it. wouldnt talk to a doc, wouldnt try anything. th... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and its driving away a good guy
Q. How can I stop being so jealous? I've been hurt badly in past relationships, lied to and cheated on time and time again. I'm now with a wonderful man who treats me better than I ever thought I could be treated, but my jealousy issues are driving him ...
A. 22 June 2012: heres my take on jealousy: every one has a right to love and be loved the way they need to. when a guy is communicative with me, when he gives me great attention and shows he cares for me..i dont get jealous..its like he understands that his love... (read in full...)
My husband won't touch me, what should I do?
Q. I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend hi...
A. 27 September 2010: there are alot of answers here that come from the outside of these relationships and are too short sighted to see what may really be going on. there are alot of men who have severe to crippling intimacy issues: these types of issues can go anywhere ... (read in full...)
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