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I'm worried people won't like or respect me if they find out I like girls

Q.   hi. i am a teenage girl. and up until now ive only had feelings for guys. but now im starting to get attracted to girls. ive kissed girls before and i liked it. almost as much as guys. there have been girls at my school who attract me. but im ...

A.   7 June 2009: just be cool about, dont tell people you like girls, but if they ask, be like yeah so? see, the trick is to act like everyone already knows, it will give that cool you-dont-care-what-people-think vibe. that and being a lesbian is totally trendy r... (read in full...)

Help!!! Should I tell him how I feel... and if so HOW should I tell him?

Q.   Hey, I'm writing in hoping that you could give me advice of what to do with my teacher. Usually I'm quite rational in making decisions of what is good or what is bad to do. But more than i think, more I'm confused. That's why i'm asking you for a...

A.   7 June 2009: dont even bother, it wont work out, just leave it as a fantasy. :) you will only cause unnecessary drama, and nobody likes drama starters lol ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a small pea sized spot on his scrotum. What could it be?

Q.   Hi = My boyfriend, who's 18 has recently noticed a small, visible, slighty hard (like a pea but smaller),red and pus filled spot on the actual scrotum itself. He says that it isn't sore but he's worried about what it could be, and is scared that it ...

A.   7 June 2009: its probably a pimple, they arent just limited to your face. just tell him to keep his junk clean and dry. and maybe talk to a doctor? (derp)... (read in full...)

What to do... I'm in love with my best friend...

Q.   I am in love with my best friend. He and i work together and we see each other every day including weekends. I know his family very well and he knows mine. I even spent a long weekend with him and his family in Arizona. I feel like I've known him ...

A.   7 June 2009: You shouldnt be so obsessive lol, trust me he can tell and he doesnt like it. I would suggest stop wasting your time with him- he isnt worth anything. And if he knows you are obsessed and he is interested in other women, it will never work out, ... (read in full...)

21 and still a virgin!!!

Q.   hi.. im 21 years old and im a male virgin. i have never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend in my life. ive had no sexual encounters what so ever and recently have been feeling very lonely.. more so than normal. i dont find it difficult to socialise ...

A.   7 June 2009: Its not a race. Just because other people lose their virginity at 13 doesnt mean you have to.... also, just like guys love virgins, so do women! I am not kidding when i say there are tons of girls i bet would love to make themselves your first. ;... (read in full...)

The boys tell me I am ugly! What can I do to make myself pretty?

Q.   dear cupid i am 14 years old and quite shy all the boys say im ugly and take the mik out of me because of what i look like it really upsets me i dont know what to do to make myself pretty im not as ugly as they say but i cant get a boyfriend all my ...

A.   7 June 2009: OK, honestly, LOOKS ONLY MATTER FOR A FEW YEARS. then after the beautiful people grow up they realize that they have no personality, no helpful skills in life, no true friends, and on top of that their looks are fading fast. besides, i have see... (read in full...)

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