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Whose problem is it, that cheating happened without one of the involved parties knowing the other was committed?

Q.   So I slept with my ex again, and it just so happens it was her first night back in town after break from school. We were at a party and she invited me to her house..... After a couple of days I texted her just to see what she was up to, having not ...

A.   2 February 2008: her problem ..she knew what she was doing. she was just after sex. . so leave her where she is. . .xx... (read in full...)

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

Q.   I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...

A.   2 February 2008: Hey everyone, its ME again. . .well i found out I am pregnant. . and my boyfriend 'the jerk' is freaking out. . its been three days and although he's said he'll stay with me (after a bit of badgering) It's as clear as crystal that he doesn't want me ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and I am afraid of my 54 yr old Therepist

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad for quite a long time so my Mom got me to talk to a counseller. I've been seeing him for a couple months now and yesterday when I saw him I felt really uncomfortable. So he's 54 and I'm only 13. I was ...

A.   1 February 2008: I doubt he'll do 'something' but there's nothing wrong with asking your mom for a female therapist. . .its perfectly normal for women to ask for a woman to talk to because of the things your feeling as well as people just find it easier talking to ... (read in full...)

I am in Love. I am 13, he is 17. He is afraid of a Relationship. What can I do?

Q.   Hi im 13. And I was going out with a 17 year old for 2 months. We were completely in love. And we're starting to talk as friends again. But there's a problem. He loves me and wants me to be his. But he's scared. He's scared about the age and he's ...

A.   1 February 2008: You should stay in each others lives until you're both old enough to handle a 'together forever' relationship. If you love him as much as you say you do, you should be happy whether he's a friend or a boyfriend...as long as he's still around... plus ... (read in full...)

We get along physically, but talking to him is awkward

Q.   I've been going out with this guy (my first proper boyfriend, I'm 18) for a month now. We get along well physically (no sex.. mostly kissing/cuddling etc) but I find that I can't talk to him. I called him last night for a chat, and it was just so ...

A.   1 February 2008: I've been exactly where you are and he never really got anymore interesting or interested. . it seems like he doesn't really care for your feelings, maybe he's not ready for a serious relationship where he can take in what his girlfriend says and ... (read in full...)

I feel neglected, unwanted, heartboken and emotionally abused

Q.   Hi, I am currently in a relation for 4 years living with my bf. I truely love him and he says he does to but lately he hasn't been showing that love, we argue and fight all the time, he treats me like sh-- and after a few days acts like everyt...

A.   1 February 2008: Maybe you should suggest a weekend away or a days outing together, alone where you're just in eachother's company but in a different, maybe romantic atmosphere, then slip in a few questions about how he feels about living with you and how the ... (read in full...)

Is he just a flirt, or does he really like me?

Q.   Here's the dilemma: I've been friends with this guy for a number of years now, he's almost 2 years younger than me (he’s 18), so until recently he hasn't been so mature - he has been known among our friends as a flirt. On the weekend, as apar...

A.   1 February 2008: It sounds like he does but the best thing to do is wait for the golden oppurtinity, when both of your feelings towards each other are obvious, instead of going out on a limb to find out what he thinks of you, because if it was just friendly flirting ... (read in full...)

How can I ask her out and get to know her better?

Q.   I want you to help me, there is this girl I so much love but when we were in school she was going out with a friend of mine and now they are no longer dating and I soooo much love her. What do I do to make her know that I love her? Thanks. ...

A.   1 February 2008: yep, the best approach is friends first, just start with something like; you remember her being a nice person back in school and you'd like to hang out with her now, just as friends. and see how it goes now, you never know she might have changed.... (read in full...)

Torn between boyfriends. . .plus I think I'm pregnant!

Q.   I've gotten myself into a predicament, I'm not over my ex and he still wants me, but I might be pregnant with my current. I broke up with my ex because he has no ambition. . hes a loving guy and we know each others families but he hasn't got 'The X ...

A.   30 January 2008: thanx for ur replies. . .i'll consider both :D xx... (read in full...)

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