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How do I overcome my crippling insecurity?

Q.   I've always been really insecure and it's annoying the hell out of me. I was brought up to be a well behaved, polite child and I suffered for it through bullying at school. I was cast into to "weird" bin very early on and as a result became ve...

A.   19 February 2011: Hi there. I'm a decent bit older than you, but I'm a still a funky, hip kinda gal! I know what exactly what you mean. I don't know if you've heard of it, but there's a book called, "I can make you happy" by Paul McKenna. He describes stuff that I ... (read in full...)

Controlling husband makes me feel I need permission to have a life!

Q.   Hi there thanks for your help. I've been married 18 years. My husband has a very caring side. Helps out around the house does some cooking etc. However, he has a very childish and controlling side too. I haven't been able to really have...

A.   19 February 2011: Hi there. I do feel concerned for you. 18 years is a long time to live like this - though it's easy to let an 'abnormal' situation become 'normal' over the years. Behaviour patterns tend to stem from childhood and as we get older they become ... (read in full...)

I think my husband is cheating, he even came home with wedding ring in his pocket

Q.   OK,,, Now i have a different ?... My husband has done things that lead me to believe he has cheated..He has gone out supposedly with a friend..wont come home and wont answer his phone. I have called the friend that he is with or supposed to be with ...

A.   19 February 2011: Hi there Yes - he's cheating. The thing that is really happening though is that he has no respect for you, which means that he doesn't love you. It also means he's not capable of love. When you're on the inside of a situation like this it's really c... (read in full...)

I don't understand how it has gone from being so lovely and perfect to this?

Q.   I have been with my bf for nearly 4 years and have been living together for nearly 3. Our realtionship to me was amazing, we had so much in common up for a laugh go out with our friends, eveything around the house was split 50/50 we was a good ...

A.   1 February 2011: Be strong. Tackle him about the rules and direction of your relationship. Talk it over and try to make peace. If you input half and hour and say positive things, your whole life can change dramatically. Attitude changes everything. If he w... (read in full...)

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