I view what he did as deceit and the trust is broken. How can we get back on track?
Q. Advice please from anyone who can help, I have just discovered that my hubby of nearly 30 years has been viewing porn behind my back, now that's probably not so bad most men want to look at porn, but in our case it has caused him to stop making love ...
A. 23 February 2007: Although itis upsetting to find out something about a person you thought you had no more left to discover, as humans we all undergo a certain amount of change throughout our lives. I dont think you have a major problem regarding the porn, you found ... (read in full...)
We have dated before, but it didnt work. We now know each other better, any advice to get him to date me again ?
Q. so theres this boy, and i really like him!! we went out already and it didnt work out because we didnt really know each other that well. it has been a several months since we broke up and now, ive got to know him better and im falling for him!! this ...
A. 22 February 2007: Did you go out for a while or was it just a one off date that kinda fizzled out? If you think he already knows that you like him you dont want to be to keen or he might just want to use you if he's not such a nice guy. Try catchin his eye without ... (read in full...)
Because of previous relationships Im coming over as Needy with my new man, how can I better handle this ??
Q. I have horrible insecurities and they're turning my life into a living hell! For 10yrs i was married to a man who drained every last ounce of self confidence from me (you're too fat, too stupid etc). My new man and the love of my life is 3yrs ...
A. 22 February 2007: Its so easy to carry over past experiences into new relationships and sometimes that ends up creating similar situations. You are however aware of your own insecurities and the cause of them so take heart, when you are aware of your problems you are ... (read in full...)
Has he had a change of heart??
Q. My ex broke up with me after four months of our relationship.It was very unexpected and it hurt me really bad. He is 22 and i am 24. He said he was too young to be in a relationship and yada yada. Well i slept with him right after our breakup ...
A. 22 February 2007: First I have to commend you on being so strong its not easy when you really care about someone as you obviously did to maintain that distance and stay strong.Break up sex might seem good at the time but emotionally it chips away at your self esteem ... (read in full...)
I have acted like an idiot, should I text him back and tell him I'm sorry?
Q. Hi, I wonder if you might give me some advice as Ive acted really foolishly over a guy and feel so bad about it. In December I had a one night fling with a married friend of mine who Ive known for a long time. We both knew it was wrong and afterw...
A. 19 February 2007: Best advice I can give you is take his number out of your phone and promise yourself that i future you will never accept a man who belongs to anyone else. Your a beautiful woman who deserves a man who loves you and only you.... (read in full...)
Do you think we should split up or work this out?
Q. the other day my boyfriend said he didn't think he was ready for a long term relationship after 2 and a half years, and ive recently found messages from another girl on his phone saying that they miss each other etc. ive suggested that we dont split ...
A. 19 February 2007: I think the question you ought to ask yourself is do I want to be with a man who doesnt want to be with me? If he doesnt want to take things further after two and a half years there really isnt anywhere else to go. Regardless of the nature of the ... (read in full...)
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