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How should I bring this up?

Q.   I am physically unable to have sex. How and when do I bring that up to a potential partner?...

A.   16 August 2010: Well, I'd like to be able to keep my privacy. Doesn't saying this right away to somebody mean that they are less likely to feel obligated to keep a secret?... (read in full...)

Dating a man who can't have sex?

Q.   Do you think that there are very many women who would be willing to date a man that is not physically capable of having sex?...

A.   16 August 2010: "YES!!!! I think a lot of the time sex is over rated and can actually complicate and ruin a relationship." Okay, this is good to know. I have asked some other people this question and they told me that they wouldn't be able to fall in love wit... (read in full...)

Dating a man who can't have sex?

Q.   Do you think that there are very many women who would be willing to date a man that is not physically capable of having sex?...

A.   15 August 2010: "and i like to just cuddle as well that can be much more satisfying than sex." I remember that scene in High Fidelity when the gal is telling the guy that she liked the cuddling better than the sex (with another guy she was with). And he really t... (read in full...)

Dating a man who can't have sex?

Q.   Do you think that there are very many women who would be willing to date a man that is not physically capable of having sex?...

A.   15 August 2010: Thank you Fatherly Advice. Explain what you mean by their being more than one way to have sex?... (read in full...)

Why Men Visit Strip Clubs

Q.   Quite a few of you have written to me in regards to your boyfriends (and a few husbands) frequenting the mens den, called Strip Clubs. This issue is a concern for most if not all women in a relationship and I can understand that. So today, I decided ...

A.   14 August 2010: I agree with @veronica who writes "I have a bit of a problem with the way you flippantly proclaim that "real men don't date strippers". Female strippers are women - real, living, breathing women. The men who date them are real, living, breathing ... (read in full...)

I don't like sex at all!

Q.   I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...

A.   14 August 2010: @anonymous I will take your advice. However I have seen a urologist and I don't think he could do anything for me.... (read in full...)

I don't like sex at all!

Q.   I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...

A.   14 August 2010: @chigirl I feel a desire, a biological yearning, for sex that is enjoyable. I can technically engage in penetration but I will not be able to have an experience of mutual enjoyment. I do yearn for other kinds of sexual activity though such as ... (read in full...)

Testicular trauma

Q.   I don't like sex as much as I want to because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality that even affects my physical appearance to the world. In what ways to you thin...

A.   12 August 2010: @Moo's Mum I am not able to enjoy sex at all. So I don't know if its like your husbands situation.... (read in full...)

Testicular trauma

Q.   I don't like sex as much as I want to because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality that even affects my physical appearance to the world. In what ways to you thin...

A.   12 August 2010:  @BeSimplyTrue Maybe I haven't done a very good job at asking the question. I have a slightly more feminine countenance than most men. My personality is probably more gentle than most men also. I guess its a question about sex. I... (read in full...)

I don't like sex at all!

Q.   I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...

A.   12 August 2010: Brownwolf- Maybe you misread my question. I am not sure I understand your response. I can't enjoy sex for physical reasons. What I don't like to think about is that fact.... (read in full...)

I don't like sex at all!

Q.   I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...

A.   12 August 2010: You are wrong. I am still attracted to women, I guess I should have made that more clear in the post.... (read in full...)

Testicular trauma

Q.   I don't like sex as much as I want to because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality that even affects my physical appearance to the world. In what ways to you thin...

A.   12 August 2010: I'm not getting many responses to this question it seems.... (read in full...)

Testicular trauma

Q.   I don't like sex as much as I want to because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality that even affects my physical appearance to the world. In what ways to you thin...

A.   11 August 2010: Well that's as good as an answer as any.... (read in full...)

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