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... Send *aieve1 a private message | | | *aieve1's profile:I was cheated on last summer (so, about a year ago). Surprise surprise, right? Basically this girl is a complete slut, she had a boyfriend at the time she did this AND she knew about me too! They got close over a summer class, flirted w/ each other, which lead to the physical cheating where no alcohol was involved. So, absolutely no excuse. I hate her guts.
I suspected him of cheating which made him confess it. Long story short, he expressed all his regret & I forgave him, so it's working out now. I guess.
...For a couple months after he cut off all contact w/ her & he told me that he wouldn't even say "hi" to her even if they crossed the same paths in school. So everything was dandy. But, I caught him chatting w/ her on FaceBook about 2 months ago, & the way they were talking ticked me off. He didn't know that I snooped (which is RARE b/c I wanted to "test the waters" & see if things aren't just going well up front), but I implied that I'd hate it if he were still talking to her and we got into a fight. He did kind of make a good point, "It's not like I'm talking to her everyday." --Ha, I don't even think that's a good reason anymore.
Any who, here's my question: Should I expect him to COMPLETELY cut her out? Delete her number, FaceBook, etc? ...I'm so stupid that I didn't make him do this earlier. I thought that he would do this on his own! It just sounds bad that I'd have to FORCE him to do that to save our relationship, it makes me seem so weak or threatened. & I actually believed in trust and seeing the good in people, specifically this person.
...Silly me.
It just makes it a lot harder b/c things are actually going well between us. But it may just be that I didn't see what was behind closed doors. So, it's hard to just talk about this out of the blue. & I don't want to be controlling or insecure. I don't know! Should I just not say anything since nothing bad happened (up front & not behind my back)? |
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He cheated with her! Should I expect him to completely cut her out?
Q. I was cheated on last summer (so, about a year ago). Surprise surprise, right? Basically this girl is a complete slut, she had a boyfriend at the time she did this AND she knew about me too! They got close over a summer class, flirted w/ each ...
A. 30 May 2010: Hi everyone,
Don't worry, I haven't focused all my hate on that girl it was all on him too. Thanks for clarifying this with me. I just thought that I was being too demanding, or that it was too late to bring it up.
I guess I just have to w... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 19 April 2010: Okay, I know that I want to be in a committed relationship, but I just don't know how to confront him about it. Any suggestions on how I approach this & how to FINALLY get that label? Thanks everyone... (read in full...)
Boyfriend troubles.
Q. *Mod Note - This post contains 4 seperate postings that have been made in to one* 1/ My boyfriend broke up with me 5 months ago, and it broke my heart, but he came back to me a month later and told me he really wants to be with me, and it took the...
A. 8 April 2010: Alright, I'm going to try and take a shot of this :)
1/ I feel that sometimes guys do need their space, but I don't think that's the reason why he's distancing himself from you. Sometimes in order to give love, you need to receive it. & not gett... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to confront him about these emails to his ex?
Q. I need help. last few days i found a chat on my bf facebook with a woman he was dating four years ago. they were talking about meeting up again and all. How they had great relatonships with great love making. I really felt bad, jealous and betrayed. ...
A. 6 April 2010: I, too, had an encounter with my guy's fb chat and found out he was chatting with a girl that he cheated on me with this past summer...and although snooping around does expose the truth, it hurts you and not him as much. I'm glad you confronted him ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 6 April 2010: I'm beginning to realize all of this now, but what do you suggest I do? How can I get back in control with this, or should I just put everything to a complete halt?... (read in full...)
Is my husband having lustful thoughts about other women?
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one.. hi am married since two n half yrs and quite happy with my marriage but few incidents that took place i feel he thinks lustfully about other woman, please can u help me by telling do these incidents indicate...
A. 5 April 2010: That sounds like a typical guy to me, it is acceptable for people to "look around" but to a certain extent. Obviously when you confront him about these questions, it seems like he'll find a way to weasel himself out of it.
Maybe you should t... (read in full...)
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