Do we need a break so that we can see our situation more clearly?
Q. Help :( I have been with my bf for 7 very happy months. He got cheated on twice before he met me and was very in love with his last gf and was broken to bits when they split. We have a great relationship but he has put walls up and is finding it ...
A. 1 August 2005: personally from experience i dont think you should split. if you stay together you should give him a little space and gradually he will open up to you, and he'll realise that you love him and that he loves you back. he will see that you care about ... (read in full...)
We were engaged... but then he moved out, broke up and just said he needs time alone!
Q. I'm so confused right now. We were together for 2 years and finally moved in with each other in August. In January he asked me to marry him. We moved out in April, back in with my parents, to get out of financial debt, then a month later he b...
A. 26 July 2005: i think the time apart made him realise some things, and i think unless he starts making his absence up to you quick, then you'd be better off without him! he's leaving you out of the picture completely here, and that isn't fair on you! you dont ... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend and the sex is great, but I just can't stop thinking about her previous lovers!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now and am very much in love. Our relationship is great on every level. However she is 8 years my senior and far more sexually experinced than me. She has had at least 4 times as many lovers as me, s...
A. 22 July 2005: it's natural to feel like this and i think the only thing that will stop you thinkin bout those past experience of hers is to talk to her bout it! sit down together and talk bout your past aswell, maybe if she assures you about her past then you'll ... (read in full...)
We're engaged to be married, but he seems to believe that it's just so we can have kids!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for the last 3 years. We are due to be married in Sept this year. The problem is we keep having arguments about a baby. I am 32 and my partner is 34. I have a daughter of 13, from a prev relationship, but have ...
A. 22 July 2005: if you are'nt ready for this then wait. if he loves you he will wait till you are ready. you are right to feel like this, it does seem that he does see marraige as a way to get a child! you shouldn't rush into this as it will cause you a lot of ... (read in full...)
Not sure if my girlfriend is a virgin...
Q. I just had sex with my girl for the first time. It wasn't too good, just like I expected, but because no blood came out I'm not sure that she is not a virgin any more ? I know that some girls do not bleed when they have sex for the first time but is ...
A. 22 July 2005: most girls do bleed for the first time. it is unusual but it must be said that some girls dont bleed. the only way you'll be able to find out if she iwas or not is by asking. i know this isnt ideal, but it's the only way. just talk to her bout it, ... (read in full...)
Something went wrong, and now my girlfriend is pregnant. We don't know what to do!
Q. Hie all of you. I do hope you can help. I have a girlfriend and we had sex and something went wrong and now she's pregnant. I can't marry her coz I'm afraid of my parents and what they'll say. They surely wont approve and neither will her parents ...
A. 22 July 2005: get your girlfriend to go to the GP. Go with her for support if she needs/wants it! they can give you advice on all the options you now have. You wont have to marry, andit sounds as if you aren't ready yet, so dont be forced into it! that would just ... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend rather spend time with his guy friends, when I'm right there on his street?
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, which I think isn't very long. We live in the same street but yet he never has time for me. Sometimes I think he's gay because he never leaves his guy friends. When I complain about it all he does is ...
A. 22 July 2005: to be honest, 3 onths isnt very long. and if he's acting like that already i dont think he's owrth you worrying bout. i dont think he's gay, but if he hasnt had many serious relationships then he feels more secure round the guys. maybe you could try ... (read in full...)
She's thrown me out, but I always cave in and go back to her. Now I want to guarantee we stay together...
Q. Can anyone help me? I have been seeing my g/f on and off 4 3 and half years. I love her more than anything, but my relationship is causing so much tension. We have a very passionate relationship, and in the past, my g/f has thrown me out of the ho...
A. 22 July 2005: well, first i just wanna say that it does sound like she doesnt love you and is using you but if she makes you happy and you sound like you want to be with her more than anything, then you're gunna have to lay down some rules. if she get's rid of ... (read in full...)
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