Weird Friendship Got A Whole Lot Weirder
Q. Hi Cupids and Aunts, I am here with another of my relationship issues. I've known this woman(whoms I shall call B.) for over 20 years now: I don't know what I am to her but she's always been something between a good friend and a cousin to me. L...
A. 23 October 2020: Allow me to relate an episode that really changed my prospect on the matter. Due to my job, my personal phone spends most of the day inside a locker and when I am finished I am often so tired I head straight to bed at 8:30PM or even earlier. Th... (read in full...)
Weird Friendship Got A Whole Lot Weirder
Q. Hi Cupids and Aunts, I am here with another of my relationship issues. I've known this woman(whoms I shall call B.) for over 20 years now: I don't know what I am to her but she's always been something between a good friend and a cousin to me. L...
A. 19 October 2020: Thank you very much for your kind answers. Sorry for not getting back to you earlier but days only have 24 hours. Last week she sent another message saying she's very busy with a big sale on the job and dealing with a family situation (she g... (read in full...)
I went to a stripclub my girlfriend broke up with me because of it
Q. I need advice. My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me after she found out me and my guy friends went to a stripclub and got lap dances. I mentioned to her that they were pressuring me into going but told her that i did not really care to go. But ...
A. 14 October 2020: You have to understand one thing: some folks, be them male or female, consider strip clubs the basest and most deplorable form of "entertainment" created by man. I am one of those folks, to the point many years ago (I was still living in Florida)... (read in full...)
I’ve been talking too much about politics and now I’ve upset a friend! How to make this right?
Q. My best friend just started dating this guy and he seems to be actually a really nice person. Only unusual part is that he's a real live Republican (guns, God Bless the USA, etc) and we're all raving mad Democrats (including my best friend). All ...
A. 13 October 2020: We've all had those moments, when we feared we really upset a friend, a relative or even somebody we are really interested in.
My advice is really simple: wait a few days to allow things to cool off, then apologize, not so much for offendin... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my 6 year old that her daddy and I are through?
Q. Hello: Well, where do I start. I have been with my fiancé for 8 years, we have a 6 year old together. Since we were young I’ve always had problems with him always doing things behind my back, cheating, lying. Well our daughter got diagnosed with L...
A. 8 October 2020: I think the only thing to do right now is to treat your daughter's illness: I don't know if this is the kind of leukemia that can be managed with watchful waiting but that should be not only your main preoccupation right now but her father's as ... (read in full...)
S there anything I can do to get my family and my sister-in-law's family to leave me alone about celebrating my birthday?
Q. My birthday is in about two months and this year, it is on a Friday. My family (parents, brother, sister-in-law and my sister-in-law's family) keeps on trying to talk me into having a get together at my parents place (they own a camp). The ...
A. 8 October 2020: I know the feeling.
Thank them for the thought but tell them you don't want any celebration in polite but firm terms. Tell them you'd like the money they have set aside for food, drinks, presents etc to be given to a charity of your choice. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks its ok to see male friends/exs one on one. I'm not comfortable with this
Q. Hi, I been with my girlfriend for six months, everything is going so well, I'm involved with her family, we never fight and we are in committed relationship, I love her. Some problems have recently surfaced, she feels it is ok to hang out with ...
A. 8 October 2020: For me it's a no-issue: just let them do whatever they want but... I demand honesty in return. If you feel attracted again to your old flame tell me: we'll either try to work out the issue or part on amicable terms. Note this may be a tou... (read in full...)
What does it mean to reparent yourself?
Q. What to people mean by reparenting and how do you go about doing that? I am a 24 year old female still living in my parents home. Growing up, my father was an alcoholic and verbally abused me and my mother. My mother was also belittling me. There ...
A. 7 October 2020: I have never heard the term "reparenting" but there's a very simple thing you can do: start working harder and saving more money and move out of there as soon as possible. Start looking for roommates: rents nowadays are crazy and unless you earn ... (read in full...)
I am clueless about how to proceed with this lady and I don't want this to be yet another catastrophe
Q. Hello Cupids and Aunts. I am in need of advice for what I am more and more convinced is a mess I got myself into. A while back while at a funeral I saw a woman who really really caught my eye, both for her beauty and her way of bearing herself....
A. 7 October 2020: I just wanted to thank all you people for your kind replies: I just come from three very hectic days at work, and things are about to get a whole lot more interesting... because I have been asked to help some Uni undergraduates with their graduation ... (read in full...)
I'm a hopeless romantic male virgin and I don't know what to do
Q. I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl, never been on a date and of course never been in a relationship. I usually end up making a connection with someone and I can't make that leap and she ends up dating someone else and gets into a ...
A. 4 October 2020: I'll be the dissenting voice, especially since all I can give you is my experience on what not to do. Are you merely nervous about the whole dating thing or there's something more? The nervousness passes after a little practice: it's exactly lik... (read in full...)
I am clueless about how to proceed with this lady and I don't want this to be yet another catastrophe
Q. Hello Cupids and Aunts. I am in need of advice for what I am more and more convinced is a mess I got myself into. A while back while at a funeral I saw a woman who really really caught my eye, both for her beauty and her way of bearing herself....
A. 4 October 2020: Code Warrior: I have used the term "common law husband" because I am not from a Common Law country and I do this sort of stupid mistakes all the time. Legal terms and concepts are a bit different here. The point is she has been together with thi... (read in full...)
I am clueless about how to proceed with this lady and I don't want this to be yet another catastrophe
Q. Hello Cupids and Aunts. I am in need of advice for what I am more and more convinced is a mess I got myself into. A while back while at a funeral I saw a woman who really really caught my eye, both for her beauty and her way of bearing herself....
A. 4 October 2020: Hi people and thanks for your answers. I think I left out a few things. My biggest bone right now is that I am very worried about her. Once I know she's fine, I can deal with everything else. If she wants to remain single, look for somebod... (read in full...)
Fed up of always being single
Q. I'm 25 and I've never had a relationship that lasted more than 4 or 5 months. When I first moved to London I really loved being single and enjoyed dating but slowly over the years, its's lost its appeal. I would really like something more serious ...
A. 2 October 2020: I was going to post my own issue but I've decided to answer to yours beforehand. How old are your flatmates? Your age? Younger? Last time I checked (late 2019) house prices in London were not in the territory a 25 year old, even with a very goo... (read in full...)
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