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I've never kissed anyone, But I really want too!

Q.   hi! well, i've never kissed anyone but i really want to soon. how do you get someone to kiss you? im 15 and i'm a girl. a lot of guys like me but im not aloud to date until im 17. my parents are very protective and i cannot change that. i cant go to ...

A.   24 August 2010: A lot of guys are terrible kissers, especially if they're teenagers, so just warning you not to be too disappointed if you encounter one. Find the right moment and a guy who is interested in you. Share a smile, make eye contact, lean in, start ... (read in full...)

Is this a text breakup?

Q.   Breakup line or not " I think I better take a break for awhile"...

A.   24 August 2010: Taking a break doesn't mean he's breaking up with you but it's on the road there.... (read in full...)

What is her motive behind the question she asked?

Q.   After knowing each other plutonically for more than a year, my girlfriend and I have become intimately involved and have lived together now for a month and a half. Things are wonderful, but I was a bit taken aback when she suddenly asked me how many ...

A.   24 August 2010: First of all, I'm sorry, but it's platonically. Talking about exes is a sort of sensitive subject. She may just be curious or she's insecure. She probably wants to see if you have about the same number as her. Of course it's always easier to tell ... (read in full...)

In love with much older man over the internet! Will people laugh?

Q.   hi everyone i am in love with a man over the internet he is so funny sweet and kind he has done alot of work on polling for elections and ive seen him on a tape why he should be elected meaning he isnt a creep he has a good backround etc but my only ...

A.   24 August 2010: Yeah if he shows the same interest in you, go for it! You could tell people when you are sure you two are serious. Otherwise, you don't HAVE to tell anyone. Besides, who cares if they laugh as long as you've found the right guy? If they're really ... (read in full...)

16 and wanting to be pregnant need advice!

Q.   alright, so im 16 years old, alot of people around me are all having babies or just getting pregnant,plus the fact i looooove babies,i also have a really horrible family life, and sometimes just need to know someone cares about me i know i have all ...

A.   24 August 2010: Okay I'm not gonna be telling you that it's wrong but I'm hoping you can put things into perspective. The love the baby will give you is worth it when you're old and mature enough to be fully responsible for it. Spend a day with a baby and you'... (read in full...)

I am falling in love with my cousin, what should I do next?

Q.   ok im 18 and i am falling in love with my cousin i want to be with her and dont know what to do.... she and i are close we tell each other stuff we wouldnt tell anyone else what do i do i want to be with her so could someone help me...

A.   1 August 2010: It could be a phase but either way, I suggest you not pursue this. Your feelings might go away in time and it'll be too late to take it all back. Think of your family and how this will always be with them and you. Bad idea.... (read in full...)

Tiny bright red spots on his penis?

Q.   My boyfriend realized he has tiny bright red spots on his penis head. They don't hurt or itch. He said it actually intensified the sex. But I'm curious if anyone would know what caused it? ...

A.   1 August 2010: http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Dermatology/Red-Spots-on-Penis-Head/show/242693 "I think it probably was some form if irritation, and because penis skin is so sensitive, redness that follows irritation can last a long time. I Your doctors'' opinions... (read in full...)

I don't desire daily sex, is there something wrong with me??

Q.   Hey everyone:) I need some help; i love my hunny and everything and want to be with him, but i find myself not wanting to have sex everyday or everyother day for that matter. I enjoy like the quality time we spend together doing silly stuff but as f...

A.   1 August 2010: No, not everyone is like that. "But it is just everything leading up to it!!!!" ^Then cut out whatever you can... (read in full...)

My dad molests me in my sleep. What should I do?

Q.   It started when i was 12 (atleast i think). I am now 14 and going into highschool. I moved in with my dad and step-mom when i was 7. And we moved to another house when i was 8. It started after my grandfather killed himself after my cousin now 16, ...

A.   1 August 2010: He needs to see a psychologist. No child should be touched so appropriately by a parent or any adult. You can't just continue letting him do this. Confronting him is a risk because you cannot be sure how he will react, especially if you two will be ... (read in full...)

We like each other but he won't ask me out!

Q.   I have a guy friend whom I am interested in and who I believe is interested in me. We get along great and we flirt with each other alot of the time. I'm wondering why he hasn't asked me out on a date. Now I know one reason could be that maybe he is ...

A.   1 August 2010: 1. Is he currently off dating and relationships? 2. Maybe he's waiting for you to show more interest so he can be sure 3. Why don't you ask him out?... (read in full...)

My stretch marks!

Q.   im 14 years old and i have stretchmarks. im so embarised by them that i were shorts with my bikkini i like evry part of my body exept my upper legs. does anyone know a cheep way i cood get rid of them bye next summer?...

A.   12 July 2010: Mederma($19), Bio Oil ($13), or cocoa butter I heard works.... (read in full...)

Why did my friend give her virginity to two strangers?

Q.   I am seriously worried about my friend.So here goes the story... me and my three best friends Well call them A,B and C. So A is older than me by 3 months and lost her virginity many years ago but that was before we were friends so we dont know muc...

A.   10 July 2010: It was not exactly safe behavior and there may be cause for concern but it sounds like she's happy about it so just let her be. Maybe she's been wanting to have sex and being the last virgin left only added more fuel to the fire. Just watch out in ... (read in full...)

I was molested, but my boyfriend is apathetic!

Q.   Okay, I'm having a bit of a dilema.. I've been with my boyfriend for two years and 8 months (tomorrow, the 10th, will be 9 months). We've never been a problematic couple and we always try not to argue. But now things have turned for the worst. I...

A.   10 July 2010: Yeah, you were both wrong, but it was so minor that you didn't tell him that it shouldn't even matter. Also can be argued that you didn't have to tell him but that's really debatable. He is being too self-absorbed, vain, and sort of sadistic. You ... (read in full...)

Help to deal with alcoholic wife

Q.   my wife of 21 years has some major problems with motivation. first, she is an alcoholic and a lazy one at that. she refuses to work to help the family in a tough financial time. wont cook, clean, pay bills, pretty much stays in bed allday and when ...

A.   10 July 2010: "i love my kids very much and dont want to be separated from them.....she lied and said the doctor cancelled the appt. for my sons broken arm so she could lay in bed allday." I don't think she would be getting full custody of the kids anyway i... (read in full...)

Can my parents take my phone?

Q.   I know this is not a relationship help request but I would like to know... Can my parents take away my phone if they didn't pay or it and I did with my own money...

A.   10 July 2010: At your age, they can do anything that doesn't harm you in any non-superficial way whether you paid for it yourself or not. Sorry, but that's how parents work. Even if you're older and still living under *their* roof, they're in charge of you. Of ... (read in full...)

She's living off the guy. Should I just stay away until she figures it out?

Q.   Long story short, I fell for a younger girl whom I was friends with for several years -- we're both artists and have come to respect each other's work, and after interacting with her for a while I do think that she might have some interest in me. I ...

A.   10 July 2010: Well, she just doesn't seem like the kind of person who's looking for anything serious right now and kind of sounds like she would be willing to be his more-than-just-friends-person in exchange for the house, which really if you think about it, is ... (read in full...)

What's does "probably" mean?

Q.   So I asked a guy out for the first time ever earlier thi week, asked him if we were still on, and he said 'probably so'. what does 'probably' mean and why?! He's the one who got my number and initiated all texts. I have not been the serial psycho ...

A.   10 July 2010: There's more than one way that he could have meant it. Probably so .. since we did agree on it and set the place and everything. or Probably so .. if there's no emergency that night and I can't make it. Just shrug it off or you'll end up going cr... (read in full...)

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