How long can a man stay for the sake of the kids?
Q. I have been married for 15 years. We have 2 kids. My wife has a lot of good qualities. She is a loving mom and generally a nice person. However, she has some very bad traits that have turned me off to the point of not wanting to be around her. ...
A. 3 May 2010: Hey there. I know you're hoping primarily for a man's perspective on the matter, but I thought that maybe a younger person's view on the issue of divorce may help you in making a decision. I'm 18 now, but my parents divorced when I was 15. They ... (read in full...)
I have dreams of kissing girls, so am I bi?
Q. For anyone out there who is gay/ lesbian/ bisexual, how did you first know, I think I am bi, I've crushed on and dated quite a few guys but, although I have never had a crush on a girl, I do have thoughts about kissing them, and on occasion have had ...
A. 3 May 2010: Hello love. I'm going to start off first by stating that simply because you have thoughts of being intimate with women does not make you bi or lesbian at all. I am perfectly straight, and the only way I can get off when I masterbate is when I ... (read in full...)
Frustrated guy with a hurt ego.
Q. Ok so..i am a 16 years old athletic guy..actually i breakdance so i am in a real good body shape and no health problems etc..but the problem is my first time was with an experienced woman i guess and it was horrible..i got everything wrong...
A. 23 April 2009: Don't worry about her, it doesn't sound like she treated you very well, especially if it was your first time. Like some readers said before, stick to the girls your own age, and don't worry about us freaking out, we're just as nervous as you are, ... (read in full...)
How can I make her stop hating me?
Q. I'm 15 and I like this girl a lot, but the problem is she hates me, plain and simple. What can I do to make her not hate me. I'm not that bad of a person, I'm kind and considerate, I even write poetry about her, I haven't shown her my work and I ...
A. 22 April 2009: Hey there, it's ironic that you posted this question because I'm in the same predicament with a guy...and I would be considered to be playing the role of the girl who "hates" him.
You sound like a sweet and caring guy and you seem to have honest i... (read in full...)
Should I let my feelings for her remain a secret, at least for now?
Q. I have had a best friend for 10 years, and known his girlfriend for around 6 years. I have always been incredibly attracted to his girlfriend but have never done anything to make a move or compromise their relationship. For example, if I feel I ...
A. 17 April 2009: Well it sounds to me like this good buddy of yours isn't someone anyone wants to be hanging around with right now. I'm unclear as to the fact of her knowing or not her sweetheart's activity's such as the drugs and cheating. Does she kow about ... (read in full...)
I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?
Q. Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed ...
A. 17 April 2009: I don't think you're at the point yet where you should ask him out. Maybe take a little more time in flirting with him, being more suggestive about how you feel about him, like dropping some pretty big hints and seeing how he reacts. If he reacts ... (read in full...)
Can someone console me please? Why do guys not seem to fancy me?
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl and so far I have never been in a relationship with a guy. My (girl) friends say that I'm pretty and sometimes I believe them, sometimes I disagree. No guys have said that to me though. It does hurt a little that guys...
A. 17 April 2009: Sweetheart, it sounds to me like you're lacking in confidence. One thing you need to learn about guys/men, is that they have a sort of X-Ray vision for confidence in women. Like Superman can see through your clothes to your panties, regular guys... (read in full...)
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