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I feel inferior to his ex and his kisses don't turn me on. I love him but is right for me?

Q.   My boyfriend and I get along great. We have the same values, same goals. He is my best friend. We have a great time together and I can see us raising a family one day. The sex is great. He is everything I have ever wanted. BUT... when we kiss THE...

A.   21 March 2011: This is tough. What you might want to do is give yourself some time apart as that might help you to figure out what you are looking for. As far as the "spark" concept, it isn't the be-all, end-all for a marriage to work or last. After the ... (read in full...)

Married and can't forget about this other man.

Q.   I have strong feelings for a married man. I am also married. I just cannot seem to get him out of my head. I have had these feelings for him for about a year now. He feels the same way. The problem is it is affecting my marriage. I am at the poin...

A.   18 March 2011: When you play with fire you will get burned...you are getting burned emotionally. You have allowed another man into your heart, unintentional or not, it happened and now you have to have that same zeal that you have for him and put that to work ... (read in full...)

Is he going to ignore me forever and will I never be able to get any answers?

Q.   I was seeing a man for 4 months. I found out he was doing a few things to me behind my back. He had lied about his age, he had another women he was spending time with. He never took me on dates,i just felt hidden. It all began to add up. I ...

A.   18 March 2011: You obviously do not want to be a "hidden" item in anyone's life, it is degrading & overtime it will affect the way you view your own self. Texting may be good here and there, but really if he cared at all he would talk with you however you wished. ... (read in full...)

I feel confused, bitter, angry and yet I can't seem to stop wanting contact with my ex...even though I'm married

Q.   I'm obsessed with my ex-boyfriend and I'm married. How do I get over this? I dated my ex for 7 years saw that it wasn't going anywhere and wanted to marry someone who shared common values (faith, kids, family). I communicated this to my ex on many ...

A.   17 March 2011: thank you very much anonymous male reader, you have helped to turn the "light bulb" on. Your answer helped me to understand why he never really left, but always kept popping in and out of life when it was convenient for him, something I was better ... (read in full...)

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