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Cheating on my wife of 27 years..is it lust? Or love?

Q.   I am 50 year old man self employed married to a beautiful lady since 27 year father of 3 daughters doing MBA in my orginization a 25 year young beautiful lady made advances towards me and made friendship with me on mobile and SMS this was 3 years ba...

A.   1 January 2010: we are all creatures of evolution. the entire goal of life is reproduction. the fiction of monogamy was developed culturally. however, we need to live in the contemporary world--and by the culture we live in. You have committed a terrible ... (read in full...)

My husband cheated and I am so numb

Q.   Its funny how in a split second everything you knew and loved can just be stripped away from you. I heard a saying the other day and it stayed with me..."what does it mean to regret when you have no other choice." This has really struck a chord with ...

A.   1 January 2010: I cannot understand your post. You indicate your husband is an American--but you sponsored him?... (read in full...)

I'm chinese and my bf is indian, parents would disown me if I married him. What should I do?

Q.   I am Chinese and I've been dating my secret indian bf of nearly 2 years . I told my parents about two years ago (I'm 21 now) that I was in love with him and my dad threatened to disown me. So I said I would think about and deal with it myself and ...

A.   1 January 2010: You already know the score, original poster. You sacrifice your family for a fling that potentially leads to marriage. You disgrace your parents for this guy just...because. This is the problem with liberal ideology. just live for the... (read in full...)

I'm not attracted to guys of my own race. Would black guys mind going out with a British-Indian?

Q.   I have a tendency to go for the black guys. Okay so I'm only 16 and I've only dated one 16 year old guy and yes he was black. But I am a British born indian, and my friends always tell me that I find black guys attractive, there's nothing wrong with ...

A.   1 January 2010: Astrology is a pseudo-science. In fact, to put it rather bluntly, its a fraud. Do not believe in it. Secondly, your attraction, more or less, is a fetish. Some incident occurred which positively reinforced your fetish, which now has convinced yo... (read in full...)

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