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Passionate about the study of interpersonal relationships, mental health and counselling
I want to contribute what I've learned throughout the years within my field of study as well as what I have learned the difficult way through life itself
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He broke up with me but I still have feelings for him
Q. Hello, I was seeing this guy who was very much into me since a month now. He used to tell me how much he loves me and how much he would want to work on our relationship. As I had exams, he told me that he would wait for me even if it means not tal...
A. 30 November 2016: Sometimes when we are really heart broken we start imagining a fantasy like situation and sugar-coat the whole relationship. What you are focusing on now is how lovely he was and how much you want to be as close as you can to him and be with him ... (read in full...)
I think she might be cheating on me
Q. Hey i just like ask if im wrong in doing this. Me and my partner been together 13years. When we first met everything was great but now its so hard to just get a kiss or a cuddle from her for example. Last night she went to her pool game just lik...
A. 30 November 2016: What does she say after you share with her how you are feeling? What really needs to happen is for you to sit down and have a SERIOUS conversation with her about how you are feeling. Talk to her about how you are feeling neglected and confused... (read in full...)
Why have her habits towards me changed so drastically?
Q. I will try and make this as short and sweet as I can. First off I just want to say that in the last couple of months I have become a very anxious person towards the woman i become enveloped with. Just 6 months ago i could care less about if a wom...
A. 15 November 2016: What I always feel is most important in a relationship is communication. I'm also a very anxious and I am definitely an over thinker. I would analyze a text right down to the fine grammatical details and try to infer what tone the person I was ... (read in full...)
I am worried about my family's reaction when they see my test results.
Q. Hi there... So a little about me.. I recently moved to a different school and in a different country and Im turning 18 very soon.. So recently, I flew home to visit my parents even though I had tests coming up. And my holiday was just a week, the...
A. 13 November 2016: What i've learned over the years is that there really isn't much we can do about what people's set expectations are. I grew up with what other kids at my school would call "strict asian parents". My parents would talk to me in a way that gave me the ... (read in full...)
I don't match his ideal. Should I worry?
Q. Hiya I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 years when we first met he told me he likes women that have long blonde hair and pale blue eyes it never bothered me when we met as I thought nothing of it but lately these last few months any blonde haired ...
A. 5 November 2016: I had a similar experience in which my boyfriend of 3 years told me he's had a thing for red heads. I became so self conscious and I was too worried to talk to him about it. It got to the point where I would bleach my naturally very dark hair to a ... (read in full...)
Am I overly anxious or is this a bad sign?
Q. So I am visiting the guy I'm dating very soon, but I am really starting to question if all this effort is worth it. I really care for him, but the feeling of me being more into him is something that won't go away. I would hardly go a day w/out ...
A. 2 November 2016: I would also like to add on to the excellent answer with the book references. Communication is SO important. If you are scared about what he might say, what I have to say is that you'll never know and will keep guessing until you straight up just ... (read in full...)
How do I keep my feelings for him from distracting me?
Q. I know this guy who studies in another university in the same country. I met him on a casual occation when i went to visit my friend in that city. We did not talk a lot. I do not even have his phone number. He never showed any flirty moves on me and ...
A. 2 November 2016: I had a similar experience during university. I was so distracted from my studies because I was completely consumed with the THOUGHT of this guy. I emphasize thought because yes, we would talk on a weekly basis because we had a lab together, but I ... (read in full...)
Why did she have to exchange numbers with a pervert and a complete stranger. HELP!
Q. This is going to be a long one but what I'm saying was suspicion until I saw it with my own eyes. She has changed and has been hideous for which I think the situation that I've mentioned below might be the reason. So here it goes. Hi, my girlfri...
A. 2 November 2016: I think some signs of your relationship not being entirely open and comfortable are that you are hesitant and unsure as to how to share with her your concerns and also that your girlfriend is hiding her phone from you instead of voicing why. ... (read in full...)
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