My fiancé left and it's affecting my health. I need to know everything.
Q. I'm 34 year's old and my fiance just left me just under 2 weeks ago. I've never been dumped and I'm not dealing with this very well. I've lost alot of weight and I don't leave the house. I really feel he left me because he got involved with someone ...
A. 14 May 2008: My partner of four years left me six weeks ago. I was devastated. So I went to the doctor saying I couldn't cope, and was prescribed an antidepressant. It really helped.
Also, take care of yourself. If you eat well you will feel better. And go f... (read in full...)
Single and getting old and I really want to meet someone.
Q. I'm gay and in my mid-forties. I have been single for over 10 years, and I'm getting lonely. Because of my career I am socially closeted, which doesn't help. I don't have much of a social life, and as a result am slightly socially crippled and unco...
A. 14 May 2008: If you're not happy, why not move to a big city? There's heaps more gays here!... (read in full...)
I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!
Q. How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...
A. 31 March 2008: Just to clarify, he was my boyfriend for four years, then met this other guy, then said he'd leave him and come back to me, but didn't leave the other guy.... (read in full...)
I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!
Q. How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...
A. 31 March 2008: Just to clarify, he was my boyfriend for four years, then met this other guy, then said he'd leave him and come back to me, but didn't leave the other guy.... (read in full...)
What are the tell tale signs?
Q. How do you tell if your soon to be husband is lying to you?...
A. 31 March 2008: I think you need to rely on your instincts. We all get weird paranoid thoughts sometimes, but if your state of mind is generally OK, and something just doesn't seem genuine or heartfelt, you may well be on to something. ... (read in full...)
Is it enough to love someone, even though you think they are disrespectful? Are people expecting too much of relationships nowadays?
Q. My partner of four years recently had an affair, then after much persuasion, decided that he did want to stay with me and make it work. When he was making his mind up I was desperate to have him back, but now he is I'm not so sure. I had ...
A. 31 March 2008: Thanks again for your advice. It took me a bit of time to heed, but he is now out of my life!! Yeah!!! I feel so free and relieved now.
Last night he said he wanted to go out clubbing 'on his own' because it was all so heavy at the moment. ... (read in full...)
Is it enough to love someone, even though you think they are disrespectful? Are people expecting too much of relationships nowadays?
Q. My partner of four years recently had an affair, then after much persuasion, decided that he did want to stay with me and make it work. When he was making his mind up I was desperate to have him back, but now he is I'm not so sure. I had ...
A. 29 March 2008: Thank for taking the time to give me your advice, people!
But there's a lot of things I did wrong myself. I was depending on him to make me happy, really, which must have been a burden for him. I didn't put effort into keeping in touch with my ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel unloved, ugly and paranoid.
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and it seems as though lately, he has completely changed and doesn't care about me anymore. He's started going out drinking more often with friends not inviting me. He's recent...
A. 28 March 2008: It's harsh, but maybe you already have. It sounds like he might have met someone else. Snoop around a bit and see.
This happened to me recently. It's terrible. I am sorry.... (read in full...)
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