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Q.   I have been married for five years now. My husband and I recently separated and now he wants me back. The problem is he sucks in bed. I have been enjoying my sex life, which I haven't in the last past three years. My husband was decent in bed at ...

A.   15 April 2010: I feel that sex is really important in a good relationship. If a either partner isn't sexually satisfied this is when they start cheating or looking elsewhere. I personally wouldn't stay with a guy that couldn't please me. This might sound selfish. ... (read in full...)

My best friend doesn't like the guys I date and says I pick "losers"

Q.   So theres this guy, i really like him. We work together...we ended up kissing and hes just so sweet, hes had a hard life and is a few years older than me. He has kids and is divorced. I really like him and he really likes me. My problem from this ...

A.   12 April 2010: I agree with your best friend. It seems as if this guy has too much drama for you. Your best friend will always be there to look out for you and stop you from making bad decisions. Please don't ditch her for a guy. She may be seeing something bad ... (read in full...)

Is it really a low sex drive?

Q.   Right here goes, My boyfriend tells me he has a low sex drive but our sex life is headnig down hill in my point of view. I havnt had sex for a week, even thought, he stayed round mine 3 night in a row and we only kissed occasionlly. I ha...

A.   22 February 2010: Perhaps your boyfriend is depressed. This happened with me and my ex. It took me a few months to discover that he was becoming depressed and because of his male "ego" he wouldn't admit to me that this was happening. He hated his job,his family and ... (read in full...)

Is sex texting a form of cheating?

Q.   I went through my boyfriends phone recently and found some text messages I'm not too happy about. He's been sending raunchy texts to his ex-girlfriend. It made me so sick to my stomach when I read them, and what made me even more sick is I looked at ...

A.   22 February 2010: To be completely honest with you he's not going to stop texting his ex. He has no reason to. Even if you confront him and tell him that you went through his phone he can still do it behind your back and just erase the messages. Furthermore, knowing ... (read in full...)

He's too nice! How do I get him to be more rough?

Q.   I really like my boyfriend. He's great, and nice and does everything just the way I want him to. But it's starting to drive me crazy! I wish that for once he'd do something wrong or get angry or something but he hasn't! This wouldn't be a huge ...

A.   19 February 2010: I can relate because when I first started dating my current boyfriend I wanted him to be a little rougher in bed as well. First off, you need to feel comfortable sexually with each other. You need to be able to tell him how you feel without making ... (read in full...)

Is 4 sexual partners a high number for a 21 year old?

Q.   I just broke up with my boyfriend and we only dated for 2 months and he was basically using me for sex, I posted a question about it a couple hours ago and recieved good respones. My question now is- I am 21 and have had sex with 4 people. Is that a ...

A.   19 February 2010: Personally, I don't think 4 partners by the age of 21 is a lot. It does however suck when you're with someone (sexually) for a short time and things don't work out and you wind up feeling the way you do. You shouldn't feel self conscious or used. ... (read in full...)

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