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After a year of dating I still can't climax

Q.   so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now. i like having sex with him and everything its just that i never climaxed, i was just curious if anyone had any suggestions or maybe reasons why this is? Thanks!...

A.   5 February 2011: Don't worry, you probably will be able to. If you feel uncomfortable, it's not unheard of to wear clothes while having sex. If he wants the full experience and you are uncomfortable, try wearing lingerie or a corset or something that will make you ... (read in full...)

Is watching porn while your in a relationship a form of cheating?

Q.   Is watching porn while your in a relationship a form of cheating? I've found out my boyfriend has watched porn a few times and confronted him about it. I told him that I feel degraded when he looks at that stuff because he has ME, so why should he ...

A.   4 February 2011: This is an issue that I think sadly comes up in just about all relationships these days, specifically with young people like us who are dependent upon the internet and consider the computer just another necessary household item like a refrigerator ... (read in full...)

After a year of dating I still can't climax

Q.   so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now. i like having sex with him and everything its just that i never climaxed, i was just curious if anyone had any suggestions or maybe reasons why this is? Thanks!...

A.   4 February 2011: I find that as a woman, climaxing is mostly mental and the rest physical. It is harder for a woman to achieve orgasm, but when you know your triggers, you can do it easy and quick multiple times before he even does. I have read that age is related ... (read in full...)

How do you make a friend to a stud when you aren't attracted to him?

Q.   Hi any women reading this. Say you have a really lovely guy friend that you are close to. You don't feel sexually attracted to him. 1. How would he have to be so that you wouldn't object to having sex with him (physically, mentally, emotio...

A.   4 February 2011: Honestly, when I was in college, I had a lot of guy friends. Being 5'7, blonde and outgoing, just about every one of those guys expressed interest in me and I remained single until my last 3 months and dated a guy from another school. I found that ... (read in full...)

I wonder if he loves me as much as I love him?

Q.   Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and although we love each other and live together, I do not feel as though he pays particular attention to me or our life at home. I am always doing my best to make our house look beautiful a...

A.   4 February 2011: I had a similar experience with my fiancée as well. I've been with him 2 years as well and I had noticed a distance between us, for seemingly no reason. He denied it and said I was Miley and got overly defensive. Turns out, he did have alit going on ... (read in full...)

Am I right in thinking I need to get rid of him??

Q.   Need to rant a bit and get some confirmation that I'm making the right decision because I don't trust myself anymore. I met this guy and fell for him. He seemed so nice and so interested. But then he started canceling plans last minute, and thin...

A.   24 December 2010: If he's causing you emotional distress, it would be wise to get rid of him., but there's obviously a reason that you didn't do it already. I know I was the same way when my current boyfriend was talking to me. I genuinely did want to go hang out ... (read in full...)

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