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The complexities of communications, in relationships, and how to sustain such relationships.

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18 July 2008: Hi I have always said to friends and other associates that it takes more than just one person to keep a relationship alive. Too often one partner feels that it is not my responsibility, its not my turn or why should I take the first step. Th...

Still devastated with what this man did to me! Any advice?

Q.   my husband left me for another woman after 11 years of marriage. Worst of all its a woman we knew from our sons baseball team. I am still devastated at all the horrific things he's done to me since we separated. We have two kids, 10 and 2, and he ...

A.   19 October 2008: Hi I sense this man was a looser from the beginning but as usual being a woman you have tried your best to work at making the marriage a better one for both of you and the children. You are clearly hurt because of what he did to you all but lets... (read in full...)

He only comes to see me when I have money, why can't I leave him? Is this love?

Q.   I need to know why am I doing this repeated. My boyfriend, he fights with me over money, takes every penny I have to the last drop just to get what he wants. Realised now that he is married with a 1 year son and he claims to be married bcos of his s...

A.   18 July 2008:  Hi You will need to get rid of this worthless abuser. He has realised that you are a vunerable, soft hearted person and is taking advantage of this. He should be locked away for a very long time and he knows that would be the case, if you... (read in full...)

I am very attracted to a sweet, nerdy guy, thing is, I want to date him, he likes me according to friends, my problem is, if I date him, I don't want him to tell a lot of people, is this mean?

Q.   I really fancy a guy, I haven't seen him in a few weeks so i texted him. He hasn't replied and I think he may be on holiday. But his friends tol me he liked me. The thing is he is a bit of a nerd... and it would destroy my reputation a bit to go ou...

A.   18 July 2008:  Girl, This is really mean. What is your problem? if you like this fellow go ahead and be proud to be with him because as far as studies have proved, it is always the nurdy blokes who turn out to be clever and sometimes great inventors of... (read in full...)

My girlfriend became my stepsister!

Q.   Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...

A.   18 July 2008:  Hi This is such as delicate situation and I must say I do feel for both of you right now. Indeed your parents must have felt that it was best to keep their relationship quiet until they were sure about their love for each other. I can undertan... (read in full...)

How can I get us back in a relationship again? He says he doesn't want to get hurt, so we are not "officially" together.

Q.   Me and this guy have been seeing each other over the past year. We break up, then get back together.. and so on. We both love each other, and I dont know if its just me but I realy have the feeling we were made for each other. Yeah sounds stupid, ...

A.   14 April 2008: Dear confused It is clear that there are no boundaries in this relationship. It also seems to me that your boyfriend is trying to get the best of both worlds - one he plays with you when you are available,willing and he is in the mood. Secondly... (read in full...)

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