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His behavior makes no sense to me! I still cant figure out what went wrong!

Q.   so i started dating this guy last year in july. he had seen me at a party a few months back and had added me on facebook in may. we used to talk online almost everyday and soon we began telling eachother everything about our day, our secrets. when ...

A.   17 January 2011: This guy sounds like he is insercure and kinda scared to get hurt... in which in return he hurts you. I sugguest u stop texting him...don't make yourself available. Go out, meet guys, have fun. If he wants to make it happen he will call. But between ... (read in full...)

He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back

Q.   So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...

A.   26 December 2010: Well I'm sure between however long yull dated you know where he lives/works so if i were you i would find him, i would sit him down and tell him how i feel. You have nothing to loose. ... (read in full...)

He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back

Q.   So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...

A.   26 December 2010: Well I'm sure between however long you dated him, you know where he lives/works so if i were you i would find him, i would sit him down and tell him how i feel. You have nothing to lose. ... (read in full...)

Guys should I tell my ex that I really like him still?

Q.   Ok this question I mainly for guys but girls can answer too:) so I really really like my ex again... But he started dating this girl recently.. He only asked her out because I said no..(he was in love with me) But now he really likes her. Me and ...

A.   26 December 2010: I would tell him...A bunch of guys get back together with old girlfriends. And he might still have feelings that u can catch before he completely moves on. ... (read in full...)

Dating a man 20 years older I really can't see what I am getting out of this relationship

Q.   I am 35 in a relationship (for 20 months now) with a man of 55. I love him, he wants to marry me, but i am hesitating. Sex is nearly absent (he has medical sexual problems), there is no financial security, and all issues that come with 20 years age ...

A.   26 December 2010: My parents are 21 years apart. They have been happily married for 20 years. My father treats my mother better than any man i have ever known. They truly love each other. If u love this man i feel you should marry him.... (read in full...)

Does he like me or am I thinking too much?

Q.   This is gonna be kinda long......so I apologize in advance. I have a guy friend whom I have known for almost 2 years now. We are both college students, took an intro class for our major together and ever since then, we talk every now and then (li...

A.   26 December 2010: I think he likes you. I think you should be the first one to "man up" and tell him you like him and pray he shares his same feelings with you too! You got nothing to loose. ... (read in full...)

Can't blank out my ex. Still compliments me but no longer fancies me?

Q.   my ex always compliments me. he dumped me a couple of months back but i cant get over him. i tried to hate him but he broke up with me so gently i ended up hating myself for not going out with him sooner. i started becoming depressed and he never ...

A.   26 December 2010: I know just how u feel...i have the same problem too. My advice is to just keep him in the friend zone. If he keep complimenting you he could just be trying to get in your pants. So i would just keep him as a friend, but i would still try to make ... (read in full...)

We broke up because of my insecurities, now he just wants to be friends

Q.   Well...my ex and i have been together for 3 yrs. we were goign to get engaged and it ended up all falling apart because of my insecurities. after this i didnt talk to him for 6 months, never once did i call or contact. he would message and stuff. ...

A.   26 December 2010: I feel like if you love him, stay in his life. Don't let him go. Love is so special and if it is really meant to be he will want to move to the next level. ... (read in full...)

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