He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 9 May 2011: hi I wanted to update you. he has been asking to meet with me to talk. i have told him how hurt and upset i am over this whole mess and he does not seem to want to see my pain. he has not apologized but did say he regretted what happened. when i ... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 3 May 2011: thank you dirtball...lol...i love that name..well i agree i did not think i would feel as relieved as i do...it was bothering me all along that he was married...and this explains why his dtrs did not come out of their rooms to play with my son or ... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 2 May 2011: just an update... we are not talking and he has asked me to delete his numbers and contacts. he said this is for the best since he cares so much it hurts him to think i am having fun or even dating anyone.. he corrected me in saying that the kid... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 27 April 2011: wow it seems i am being way misunderstood by some readers but good to know opinions from both sides...i felt ths way when he said he was married and I told him we should date when ur divorce is over..he said we are living in two diff states so not ... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 27 April 2011: to MamaBear and Flowerx: wow...i guess I am wrong but i thought i was just being a gf who was not feeling so important. this happened at Christmas as well and i was understanding but this tme it bothered me. maybe the way he approached so beatin ... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 26 April 2011: Yes, i agree people should put their kids first and I am not by any means asking that he not do that... what age do you consider fully grown? i think anyone who is dating someone doesnt put her/him to the side because it will suddenly hurt th... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 26 April 2011: I agree i love this about him..he is great parent but some i think is guilt or fear to upset them. he said they go into rages..i also agree he needs to be divorced and we discussed at this point to not date anymore till he is single..so we will c. ... (read in full...)
He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?
Q. hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...
A. 26 April 2011: he stated exactly what you said about putting my needs first if that is what i needed to do. It felt like the right thing b/c he was basically telling me i was not that important to consider my feelings on this holiday. all year he led me to believe ... (read in full...)
Have you noticed any behavior problems with your child after he/she has begun dating?
Q. hi i am back again. I have a new question about whether or not others have noticed any behavior problems with their kids when they began dating someone steady?...
A. 16 April 2011: thank you very helpful stuff....... (read in full...)
Have you noticed any behavior problems with your child after he/she has begun dating?
Q. hi i am back again. I have a new question about whether or not others have noticed any behavior problems with their kids when they began dating someone steady?...
A. 15 April 2011: thank you for your thoughts however very useful later in my 10 year olds life. I'm sorry I was not clear. I meant if I was dating steady and my child started developing poor behavior. today he got suspended for fighting after another child had ... (read in full...)
My BF and I are in our 40s', but is it ok for us to spend the night together, at the risk of setting a bad example to our kids?
Q. my boyfriend and I met 8 months ago and we are in our 40's. the problem is he has 2 daughters 20,22 and I have one son 7 years old. We don't live near eachother so we don't get much time alone. When we are together we can't be alone in our rooms ...
A. 11 January 2011: yeah i agree...we should be able to do whatever as long as it is not right in front of the kids. I do think though that my 7 year old should not know when i am spending the night. I willkeep to having him stay at a friends so i can go out in private ... (read in full...)
He wants to video tape us having sex and I'm not comfortable with it
Q. Okay so I've dating my boyfriend for 5 months I love him more then anything. I'm in college and he works. He's 34 years old and I'm 19 years old. I know there is a big gap but I love him and I feel like he does loves me back. so we had issues in the ...
A. 10 January 2011: OMG...absolutely not! almost always this will be a pawn to use against you at any time in your relationship. How about doing other sexual things with him like doing it in front of a mirror if he want to watch the act but not on anything permanent. ... (read in full...)
My BF and I are in our 40s', but is it ok for us to spend the night together, at the risk of setting a bad example to our kids?
Q. my boyfriend and I met 8 months ago and we are in our 40's. the problem is he has 2 daughters 20,22 and I have one son 7 years old. We don't live near eachother so we don't get much time alone. When we are together we can't be alone in our rooms ...
A. 9 January 2011: well here is an update...I got a sitter and my bf and I spent the night together. Literally all we did was talk about how he was having trouble with one of his dtrs and sleep. We slept well. He said that was the best nights rest he had in along ... (read in full...)
My BF and I are in our 40s', but is it ok for us to spend the night together, at the risk of setting a bad example to our kids?
Q. my boyfriend and I met 8 months ago and we are in our 40's. the problem is he has 2 daughters 20,22 and I have one son 7 years old. We don't live near eachother so we don't get much time alone. When we are together we can't be alone in our rooms ...
A. 8 January 2011: thank you this does help alot. We need this time in a bad way not for sex just to be alone, alone with each other. However my question also has another part of interest that I don't think i was clear on and I hope you can shed some light to help me ... (read in full...)
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