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My LDR boyfriend blew off my birthday. His birthday is in a few days. Should I blow it off or at least send him a card? 

Q.   My LDR boyfriend of 1.5 yrs allegedly forgot my birthday (*actually, I think he remembered 2 days before but decided to be cheap and blow it off). When I didn't speak to him for 2 days, he still didn't try to make it up to me, so I asked him to ...

A.   4 September 2012: We live 767 miles apart. We went to high school together and met on FB last year. We were always both "loner" personalities (*I've a small circle of friends, but often do things by myself. He's the same way). When we 1st began dating, he initiate... (read in full...)

My LDR boyfriend blew off my birthday. His birthday is in a few days. Should I blow it off or at least send him a card? 

Q.   My LDR boyfriend of 1.5 yrs allegedly forgot my birthday (*actually, I think he remembered 2 days before but decided to be cheap and blow it off). When I didn't speak to him for 2 days, he still didn't try to make it up to me, so I asked him to ...

A.   3 September 2012: Yes, he has a good job and owns a house in a ritzy area. He also owns a corvette, a Honda Accord, and a Regal, which he appears to have paid cash for a few months ago. I was just thinking about how my past 2 boyfriends didn't even give give gif... (read in full...)

Does he consider our LDR a genuine relationship or am I on the side?

Q.   Dear Cupid: Am I too paranoid/insecure, or are there some red flags here? Something about this LDR doesn’t sit right with me. After chatting 3 mos. on Facebook, I returned to my home state to meet a guy I went to high school with (-I’m 3 states ...

A.   3 June 2012: That sounds about right. Thanks.... (read in full...)

30 year age difference. How do I tell my parents?

Q.   Am a 20 years young woman who is in love with a 50 years old man he wants us to get married as soon as possible,i don't no how to brake the news to my parents ....

A.   2 June 2012: You are soooooo young and inexperienced. If you care about your own happiness -- be wise about this. Listen to the excellent, caring advice all the others have offered -- otherwise, you could end up having to pay him $$ alimony for life, or go to ... (read in full...)

I wish I hadn't asked my b/f if he would be interested in dating his friend if we broke up

Q.   My boyfriend of 7 months and I enjoy discussing everything and posed the hypothetical question of "if we were to break up, would you be interested in pursuing any of your friends". Fyi, he has casual female friends whom he has dated briefly in the ...

A.   2 June 2012: I'm in my 1st time LDR for the past year and have vigorously bought books/studied relationships from a man's point of view. Guy advice that I've come across on your topic would be: (1) He's with you because he wants to be with you. (2) Never accu... (read in full...)

How do I support my friend who just broke up?

Q.   My friend had been with her boyfriend for 19 months before they split up, it was her first boyfriend so it's kind of hit her hard. How do i support her? Like, what do i say and do? Help will be appreciated, thanks ...

A.   2 June 2012: Have her tell you 5 things that annoyed her about him, then take her to a movie she wants to see or do something else to get her mind off of him. Tell her that if she contacts him, she sabotages any chance of them getting back together -- actually, ... (read in full...)

Guys, how would you feel if an old flame sent you a message on facebook?

Q.   This is a question for the guys.. how would you feel if an old flame sent you a message on facebook? just to ask if they had the right person? (am pretty sure it is the right person) Would it be a shock to see an ex after 17 years? I sent a messag...

A.   2 June 2012: Whenever I get contacted by ex's, I'm always afraid they are wanting to start something back up again. It's awkward.... (read in full...)

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